• 127. The Guilt Detox: Breaking Your Addiction to Approval - Permission to Disappoint, Part 2

  • Apr 9 2025
  • Duración: 20 m
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127. The Guilt Detox: Breaking Your Addiction to Approval - Permission to Disappoint, Part 2

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  • Okay, real talk—Have you ever said no to something you knew wasn’t right for you……only to spend the next 48 hours wondering if you’re a selfish monster who’s just disappointed everyone and ruined everything?Yeah. You’re not alone.And also? You’re not a monster. You’re just tangled up in a guilt spiral no one warned you about.This episode is for the people-pleasers who are so done putting everyone else’s comfort before their own sanity… but still get that pit in their stomach every time they try to set a boundary.If you’ve ever thought,"Why does saying no feel so bad, even when it’s the right thing to do?"—this episode is about to flip that script in a way you didn’t see coming.Inside, Pamela drops a truth bomb (the kind that feels like a loving slap from your most honest friend):Guilt isn't your moral compass… it's your withdrawal symptom.Yep, like caffeine headaches—but for approval.You'll learn:✨ Where your guilt really comes from (hint: it’s not your fault)✨ The powerful 3-second move that will save you from a lifetime of regret-yesses✨ A set of magic questions to ask before you give your next answer✨ And the surprising reason people get mad when you start saying no (this one will make your jaw drop… and then nod in deep recognition)There’s even a hilarious moment where Pamela accidentally discovers one of her most effective boundary tools mid-sip of a drink. (Because sometimes clarity shows up when your mouth is full.)So if you’ve been feeling low-key exhausted from always being the “go-to” person, if your inner monologue sounds like “I should just do it—they’ll be upset if I don’t…”—pause.And listen.Because the way out of that guilt trap?It starts with one small, powerful shift—and Pamela’s handing you the map.🔥 Want help putting what you just heard into action?The Boundary Setting Toolkit is your next step. It’s packed with:A checklist to spot your automatic yes moments10 word-for-word “no” scripts that don’t sound awkward or meanReady-to-use templates for texts, emails, and real-life convosA 3-step reset process for when you slip up (because you will)And smart ways to buy time—so you stop saying yes before you even think👉 Grab the toolkit right now using this link.👈It’s everything you need to start setting boundaries without the guilt hangover.Let this be the day you finally make yourself the priority.How to Connect With Pamela:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠About the host:Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves.This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself.I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it, and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.
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