#122 Code 3 Driving Philosophy, Armchair Quarterbacking & Firehouse Culture

In this episode, Matt and Brian dive deep into some of the challenges (and hilarious moments) happening both in and out of the firehouse. From Matt’s code 3 siren strategy to Brian’s communication fatigue, this one’s got a little bit of everything: loud opinions, soft wisdom, and yes... more Snail Mail.

🔥 Highlights Include:

• 🚨 Driving Code 3: Matt shares his take on how and why sirens should be used—air horns included

• 🧠 Leadership, Followership & Informal Influence – What role do you play in the firehouse?

• 📲 Comment Culture & Keyboard Commanders – A look at how feedback lands in the fire service, both online and in person

• 📬 Snail Mail Returns! Featuring real listener responses, debates on informal leadership, stew showdowns, and a surprise shoutout

• 💬 Communication in an “over-communicated world” — why tone matters more than ever

• 🧠 “Don’t criticize the fire you didn’t fight.” – A real convo on armchair quarterbacking & healthy critique

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• 🧂 Food talk! Unki Seasoning + Blackstone pasta gets a highlight

• 👕 Burn Box shoutout + FD Collectors Club faves

• 💛 Moment of Silence for responders injured or lost in the line of duty

💡 Key Themes:

• 🚒 Don’t confuse noise for leadership – real influence starts with humility

• 🧠 Effective communication is a skill—and a responsibility in the firehouse

• 🎧 Social media isn’t always the kitchen table—but it can be

• 🙌 Be present, be positive, and bring the energy—especially if you're new to the job

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