#116 Why Can’t I Get It Together?

Have you ever decided to change… only to find yourself reacting the old way again a few days later? You start strong. You feel convicted. You’re clear on what needs to shift. And then something small happens — and you slip back into the same habit, the same reaction, the same pattern. And suddenly you’re thinking, “Why can’t I get it together?” In this episode, we’re talking about the middle space of change — the place between awareness and stability. The part no one really prepares you for. You’re not who you were. But you don’t fully feel like who you’re becoming yet. We’ll unpack:

• Why starting strong and wobbling is completely normal
• What’s happening in your brain and nervous system
• Why identity in Christ changes how you experience growth
• And why slipping back doesn’t mean you’re starting over

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