1059 - How To Earn Back Your Wife's Trust (No Matter How Bad You Goofed)

In this episode, Sathiya explains how to earn back your wife’s trust after porn use or betrayal — no matter how big the mistake was. He breaks down why porn damages relationships, why women experience betrayal trauma, and what husbands must understand before trying to rebuild the marriage. You’ll learn the #1 factor that restores trust (consistency), how long healing realistically takes, why you should stop trying to “get back to how things used to be,” and how to build a stronger, more honest relationship moving forward. Perfect for men searching for help with rebuilding trust, healing from porn addiction, betrayal trauma recovery, and marriage restoration.

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Chapters:

• (00:08) The Hard Truth About Porn and Divorce
• (01:00) Welcome & Why This Episode Matters
• (02:20) How Porn Impacts Your Wife Emotionally
• (03:10) What Betrayal Trauma Really Means
• (04:55) The Reality: You Won’t Win Her Trust Back Overnight
• (05:50) The Only Guaranteed Way to Rebuild Trust
• (07:09) What Consistency Looks Like in Real Life
• (07:50) How Long Does Healing Take?
• (08:55) Why You Shouldn’t Want Things “Back to Normal”
• (09:32) Don’t Rush the Process — or You’ll Make It Worse
• (10:30) Final Encouragement: Your Marriage Can Heal