102. Failing or Evolving: How to Know When to Quit Your VA/OBM Business (Or Just Pivot)

Ever lie awake at 11 PM wondering if you should just shut your business down? You're making money, clients seem happy, but internally you feel exhausted and disconnected from work that used to light you up.

If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

In this solo episode, I'm breaking down the difference between business failure and business evolution - and why confusing the two can lead you to walk away from something that just needs to shift.

Sometimes what feels like failure is actually your business nudging you toward growth. The trick is learning how to tell the difference.

Key Points Covered:

✨ Why exhaustion makes you confuse temporary discomfort with permanent failure

✨ The three reflection questions that reveal whether you need to quit or evolve

✨ How to identify if your problem is emotional (burnout) or structural (offer misalignment)

✨ The difference between craving rest versus needing reinvention

✨ A real client story: from "I want to burn it down" to clarity and confidence

✨ How evolution shows up as discomfort, disinterest, and sometimes irritation with work you used to love

The Three Questions to Guide You:

1. Do I still care about the impact of my work?
2. Am I craving rest or reinvention?
3. Is the problem emotional or structural?

If you're sitting here unsure about whether to walk away or evolve what you're doing, that's exactly what I work through with my 1:1 clients inside of Expansion. The very first phase, Illuminate, is all about getting crystal clear on what you actually want - because you cannot make good decisions about your business when you don't know what you're building toward.

Most of my clients come in thinking they need to completely start over. But after Illuminate, they realize they just need clarity on where they're going and permission to evolve.

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