WHAT AM I GOING TO DO NOW?

How to Help a Senior You Love Feel Needed Again

De: C Davert

Narrado por: Virtual Voice

What happens when a senior is safe… but no longer needed?

When a parent, spouse, or loved one loses the roles that once defined them, something invisible but devastating often follows. Not illness. Not loneliness alone. Identity loss.

What Am I Going to Do Now? addresses the quiet crisis families rarely name: when seniors are protected, cared for, and surrounded by activity, yet still fade because they are no longer relied upon.

Written from lived experience, this book introduces a compassionate, practical framework called the Always Needed approach, helping families restore purpose, dignity, and belonging without overwhelming or infantilizing the people they love.

Rather than offering activity lists or institutional advice, this guide shows how to:

• Recognize role loss and its emotional toll

• Invite meaningful contribution instead of passive care

• Ask for help in ways that preserve dignity

• Navigate assisted living, family conflict, widowhood, retirement, and cognitive change

• Replace “keeping them busy” with being genuinely needed

Through real stories, simple scripts, and step-by-step tools, readers learn how to shift care from management to partnership. From asking a parent to teach a recipe, to creating small roles that matter, the book offers concrete ways to help someone remain themselves even as life changes.

This book is written for:

• Adult children caring for aging parents

• Family caregivers navigating transitions

• Seniors struggling with loss of purpose

• Assisted living and senior community staff

• Anyone who has heard the question, “What am I going to do now?” and didn’t know how to answer

People don’t need to feel occupied.
They need to feel relied upon.

This book shows you how.