Unmoored

Coming of Age in Troubled Waters

De: J. R. Roessl

Narrado por: J. R. Roessl

It’s the sixties. Everything’s groovy. Teenagers bask in the freedom of a country transformed. Counterculture is on the rise, and the times, they-are-a-changing. Everything, that is, except the author’s young life.

She doesn’t swoon for the Beatles or scream for the Stones. She doesn’t protest the Vietnam War or fight for women’s rights. Instead, from age seven to sixteen, she accompanies her father to a dilapidated barn on the edge of a dusty little town located on the outskirts of San Francisco, where she works after school, on weekends, and summers building a ship that is supposed to set her free. It is her father’s promise of one day sailing the ocean on a three-year around-the-world adventure that keeps her going.

With the sixties and teenage torment as a backdrop, Unmoored is the parallel story of growth and redemption through the travails of a forty-four-foot schooner and the girl who helped guide it through storms, fire, near destitution and, ultimately, disaster, notwithstanding coping with a cold and moody father. But in the end, she learns that “Heritage’s worth, like ours, is not measured in terms of where she landed nor by what others thought of her, but in the attempt to get somewhere better than where she’d started. In that, she succeeded, and by default, so did we.”

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©2023 J. R. Roessl (P)2023 Blackstone Publishing

It grew on me.

A lovely insight into the meaning of family. Along with a travelogue of a coastal journey by yacht and the ups and downs thereof.

Harrowing tale of a teenager’s life at sea at The hands of an unhinged(to say the least) father.

Suspenseful, incite full & beautifully expressed. Couldn’t stop reading! Can’t wait to read more from j.R. Roessi.

One of the most inspiring coming of age stories

I thoroughly enjoyed Unmoored by JR Roessl. The author's portrayal of her family's courageous voyage along the tumultuous waters of the Mexican Riviera, aboard a DIY vessel intended for calm New England waters, had me consistently on the edge of my seat. It's truly inspiring to witness her growth into an extraordinary person despite facing remarkable challenges at such a tender age. This book prompted me to reflect on my own potential for personal growth.

Great nautical adventure story

Mosquito Coast meets the Wonder Years. Do you ever wish you grew up in a family that traveled the world in their yacht? Some people would die for that experience. JRs father was determined to have that experience despite all the signs from the universe. Luckily JR lived to tell the tale.

Fundamentally a character study dressed around a sailing tale

As a sailor with ten years of experience who spent countless weekends on my 27-foot Newport sailing the Columbia River, I've read many sailing books and dreamed of ocean voyages.

Though I made frequent trips to Astoria, I never crossed the Columbia bar into the open ocean—those dreams remained just that, dreams. This context made "Unmoored" an unexpected and intriguing dive into what I can only describe as an almost zombie-like twilight zone experience.

The book presents a family so distressed that it's hard to fathom their reality. The antagonist is the young sailor's father, a man who mistreats his four daughters with shocking insensitivity. He treats them like servants and slaves, ordering them around mercilessly with crude, callous, and abusive language.

He reminds me of Joe Btfsplk from "Li'l Abner"—the character surrounded by a perpetual cloud of bad luck that he spreads to everyone around him, making people avoid his company. This father has the worst luck of any sailor I've encountered in fiction or nonfiction. He simply can't catch a break.

What makes him particularly troubling is his two-faced nature. While his family sees him for who he truly is, he continues writing letters to his parents describing an idyllic life aboard ship—a portrayal that's 180 degrees from reality. I wonder whether he's lying to himself or genuinely doesn't recognize his own incompetence.

The book kept me intrigued throughout, hoping for some smooth sailing that rarely comes. Sometimes in life it's hard to see the forest for the trees, and often we face circumstances we can't comprehend. This is exactly that kind of story. The daughters bring their own angst and seem unable to support one another, creating a rivalry and antagonism that adds another layer of dysfunction to an already troubled family.

The mother emerges as a complex figure in what is fundamentally a character study rather than a sailing tale—though the maritime setting provides a fascinating backdrop. The imagery throughout is quite stunning and beautiful. I listened to the Audible version and enjoyed the author's voice and vivid descriptions.

One particularly striking observation comes from the mother's assessment that the author more closely resembles her father more than anyone. This seems accurate, as the author certainly has her own share of bad luck and personal storm clouds. However, she appears to handle adversity much better than her father ever could.

Despite the challenging subject matter, "Unmoored" is an entertaining and compelling story that I highly recommend for anyone interested in complex family dynamics set against the unforgiving backdrop of life at sea.

Captured my heart!

What a beautiful and poignant memoir! I was graced with knowing one of the sisters in this story and listened to this tale on the edge of my seat. I laughed and I cried as I participated on this journey with these young girls. An incredible story not to be missed.

Transported to an adventure during my commute

I enjoyed listening to the reading of this coming of age adventure memoir. This true story of a teenagers real life experience enduring her fathers wanderlust on the high seas is read by the actual author which is always the best way to hear a story. Although I’ve never been sailing I identified with so many raw feelings of teenage angst and struggle. This families story is unbelievable yet all their complex interpersonal relationships are so relatable. It was all the things you want from a story insightful, funny, a bit sad, entertaining and leaving you wanting more from the characters. JR Roessl give us more!

Some Stories in Life are Worth Reliving

I so thoroughly enjoyed J.R. Roessl’s audiobook during my daily walks. Before listening to Unmoored, I never could have imagined a teenage life completely upended to fulfill a father’s dream of a sailing life at sea. But now I know, and it was great insight into how ordinary people put in extraordinary circumstances will often handle so many difficult trials with resiliency. I’m so glad that J.R. Roessl chose to share such an intimate story of her family dynamic and her young life at sea. And her personal narration was a wonderful final touch on such an inspirational story.