Twenty Principles of True Attraction

Why Love Finds Us When We're Open, and Not a Moment Before

In an era of endless connection, why are we all still asking: 'Where is my person?'

It is the question echoing across every social media platform and whispered in every quiet moment of loneliness. We have been told that love is a prize for the polished. We spend years refining our resumes, perfecting our bodies, and curating our lives, hoping that if we just become "impressive" enough, our person will finally appear.

But attraction doesn't work that way. True connection rarely happens in the glow of a perfect moment; it happens in the "spinach moments." It’s that unscripted, unfiltered second when someone leans in and whispers, "Hey, just a heads up... you’ve got a little something in your teeth." Those are the raw encounters where our guards are down and our souls are finally visible.

In 20 Principles of True Attraction, Charles Rivers reveals a perspective that is as empowering as it is gentle: the love you seek is not a distant trophy to be won, but a frequency to be tuned into.

Drawing from the pioneering Progenitor-Grace Theory, Rivers explains that the "Gender War" we see today is actually a crisis of exhaustion. We are tired of being the "fixers." We are tired of the "Game." We are tired of a world that tells us we must be useful to be loved. This book is an invitation to return to a more primordial clarity—that your person has likely crossed your path a dozen times already, but you have been accidentally passing one another in a haze of misalignment.

Inside these pages, you will discover:

• The GPS of Presence: Why the person you desire is often within a mile of where you stand, and how to stop broadcasting "Impressive" so you can finally start broadcasting "Available."
• The Scraps Economy: How to stop bankrupting your heart to fund your career and start bringing your best energy back to the people who matter most.
• Psychological Gravity: A deep look into the hidden rhythm of your history, helping you understand why you choose who you choose—and how to turn that insight into a foundation for healing.
• The L.O.V.E. Framework: A tactical guide to leaving your ghosts behind, observing the truth of the person in front of you, and evolving into a union that makes you bigger, not smaller.

Whether you are a high-achieving woman tired of being the only one holding it all together, a man looking to trade performance for genuine respect, or a couple longing to find their way back to the playground—this book is your map.

The love you are looking for is looking for you, too. It isn't missing because of bad luck; it is simply waiting for you to align your signal. It is time to stop the chase. It is time to come home to the resonance you were always meant to feel.