Top 10 Signs Your Dog Thinks They’re in Charge

Decode Dominant Dog Behavior and Restore Balance at Home

De: Elira Wren

Narrado por: Brian Miles

Dogs are wonderful companions. They greet us with wagging tails after a long day, snuggle close when we’re feeling down, and fill our homes with love, laughter, and often a bit of mischief. Their loyalty is unwavering, their joy infectious, and their affection unconditional. This is why, for millions of households around the world, dogs are more than pets—they're family.

We feed them, care for them, walk them, and even talk to them as if they fully understand us (and sometimes, we’re convinced they do). This deep bond we share is built on trust, routine, and mutual affection. But in some households, that love, while well-intentioned, may blur an important line: who's in charge?

You might laugh at the idea that your dog thinks they run the show, but this isn’t just about spoiled pups or funny quirks. It’s about behavior. Subtle actions (or inactions) that suggest your dog may believe they’re higher up in the household hierarchy than they should be. This doesn’t mean your dog is a “bad dog” or that you’ve failed as a pet parent. Far from it. Most of the time, these dynamics develop gradually, often out of love, routine, and a few “cute” behaviors that go unchecked.

Dogs are incredibly perceptive and smart. They thrive on structure and respond to leadership—especially the calm, confident kind. When clear boundaries are missing or inconsistent, some dogs will naturally fill in the blanks themselves. They start making decisions. They guard resources. They dictate the pace and rules of play. They ignore commands not because they don’t understand, but because they don’t see the need to obey.

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Gentle and Nonjudgmental

Wren’s tone is reassuring and supportive. You don’t feel blamed—you feel empowered. I learned how to gently take back leadership without damaging my relationship with my dog. It’s a perfect blend of science, experience, and love.

Helped Reduce Behavioral Issues

Our dog had become pushy, barking constantly and ignoring boundaries. This book made me realize the importance of structure and leadership. After following the tips, we noticed a major improvement in just a few weeks. It really works!

Eye-Opening and Easy to Follow

I never realized how my dog's pushy behaviors at the door and on walks signaled dominance. This book broke it down in a simple, non-judgmental way and helped me course-correct without yelling or punishment. Highly recommended!

Love-Based Leadership That Works

This isn’t about being strict or harsh—it’s about understanding how dogs think. The book promotes gentle but firm leadership and helped me address my dog’s “bossy” behaviors without damaging our bond. Highly recommended for any dog lover.

Makes You Laugh and Learn

The writing is so enjoyable it feels like talking to a wise and funny dog trainer friend. I was laughing at how accurate the descriptions were, and learning so much at the same time

From Chaos to Calm

My dog used to jump on guests and ignore me completely. I followed just three of Wren’s suggestions, and the changes were immediate. This isn’t a training manual—it’s a behavior decoder. Brilliantly narrated and clearly written.

I Thought My Dog Was Just Stubborn

Turns out he wasn’t stubborn he just thought he was in charge! This book explained everything so clearly. I feel more confident and my dog seems happier too. A must-read if you’re struggling with obedience

Great for First-Time Dog Owners

As a new dog parent, I didn’t realize how easily leadership confusion could set in. This book broke things down in a way that made sense and gave me confidence. Now my dog listens better, and our daily routine is smoother.

Short, Smart, and Spot On

It’s not a long read, but every page is valuable. It helped me understand why my dog guards certain spots in the house and how to adjust that behavior. Clear, concise, and compassionate

Is Your Dog Your Boss?

That’s the question that hooked me—and the answer was yes! This book is a fun, informative look into the psychology of pets and people. Easy to apply and incredibly helpful for creating a better home life.