The Way of Men with Maids

Forgotten Christian Wisdom for Becoming a Man Who Wins at Love

De: Giff Lasta

Narrado por: Giff Lasta

Most Christians give young men a list of DON’Ts. This book shows them what to DO.

The Way of Men with Maids is for those who want more than rules—who are hungry for the adventure of love and life. Whether you're trying to understand why girls are so hard to talk to, planning your first date, or wrestling with your own urges and self-doubt, this book will guide you every step of the way. Inside, you'll get:

• A bold vision for masculinity that's rooted in faith, attractive to women, and fulfilling to your core drives
• Real talk on how women are wired and what they see in us
• Practical walkthroughs on approaching girls, making conversation, planning and executing dates, and leading in relationships

There are no magic bullets—just tested wisdom and clear strategies that'll help your hard work and sacrifice pay off. This book is for the boy becoming a man—and the man at any age who's eager to win at love.

©2025 Giff Lasta (P)2025 Giff Lasta

Maybe the most important book besides the Bible for Christian men to read.

Ten out of five stars. I grew up Christian, saved myself for marriage, all that. This book gave me the wisdom and practical knowledge the Church didn’t. Giff’s points are all rooted in scripture, and he explains why it’s important to embrace biblical masculinity, lead yourself (and your wife), and how to ignite desire in your wife. This book is billed as a way to master intersexual dynamics in marriage, which is a great hook, but it’s so much more than that. This book teaches you how to be a man that honors God, that other men want to be, and that women desire.

Wisdom for all

Recently finished @GiffLasta new book, The Way of Men with Maids.

It is quite compelling. This book provides a template for young boys to step into manhood.

It also delivers actionable advice for married men striving to woo their spouses.

I've been with my wife for 11 years and married 8, but this book was still quite though provoking to me.

Giff acutely defines what it means to walk in your "masculine frame" and what that means to the fairer sex.

He describes a woman's perspective when men present themselves in different ways.

He delves into the importance of understanding the push and pull between potential partners, and the fine dance that accompanies the play.

Coquetting is a term I hadn't heard before, but it explains perfectly the dance and playful banter as a man pursues a woman. Giff dives into examples about how to be successful with this (somehow I naturally mastered this one. Probably from watching my father woo my mother my whole childhood).

He also delves into leadership and what it means to truly lead, and to earn the leadership. He uses the example of Captain and first mate, which I love.

There's plenty more that I didn't touch on, but overall, this was an awesome listen and one that I wish I had in my adolescent years.

Thank you

Giff, that last chapter really brought it all together. I am excited to live this life of Christian masculinity.

Strong values without preachiness

Very well-balanced, strong themes and organization, focused on Biblical values without being preachy or pretentious.