The Way of Men with Maids

Forgotten Christian Wisdom for Becoming a Man Who Wins at Love

De: Giff Lasta

Narrado por: Giff Lasta

Most Christians give young men a list of DON’Ts. This book shows them what to DO.

The Way of Men with Maids is for those who want more than rules—who are hungry for the adventure of love and life. Whether you're trying to understand why girls are so hard to talk to, planning your first date, or wrestling with your own urges and self-doubt, this book will guide you every step of the way. Inside, you'll get:

• A bold vision for masculinity that's rooted in faith, attractive to women, and fulfilling to your core drives
• Real talk on how women are wired and what they see in us
• Practical walkthroughs on approaching girls, making conversation, planning and executing dates, and leading in relationships

There are no magic bullets—just tested wisdom and clear strategies that'll help your hard work and sacrifice pay off. This book is for the boy becoming a man—and the man at any age who's eager to win at love.

©2025 Giff Lasta (P)2025 Giff Lasta

Excellent Book

I went into this book unsure of what it would be. I was amazed by its wisdom. This book has principles and concepts that every man needs to learn, internalize, and leverage regardless of age. However, doing so as early as possible will set their trajectory in a way that will with certainty be beneficial as they grow. I was blessed to stumble across it. My son will be reading it as he grows older.

Maybe the most important book besides the Bible for Christian men to read.

Ten out of five stars. I grew up Christian, saved myself for marriage, all that. This book gave me the wisdom and practical knowledge the Church didn’t. Giff’s points are all rooted in scripture, and he explains why it’s important to embrace biblical masculinity, lead yourself (and your wife), and how to ignite desire in your wife. This book is billed as a way to master intersexual dynamics in marriage, which is a great hook, but it’s so much more than that. This book teaches you how to be a man that honors God, that other men want to be, and that women desire.

thought provoking

As someone who thinks about leadership a significant amount, this book was very impactful. I've been able to adjust my approach both at home and at work in various situations based on ideas in this book I've been able to apply. I found it thought provoking and inspiring as I pursue becoming the leader God created me to be.

Excellent advice for young men

I was that kid in High School that thought the way to love and happiness was to weakly obsess over girls I was interested in. Between that time and now I found myself in a sexless marriage, divorced, seduced by the MGTOW folks, surrounded by Godless people, and falling deeper and deeper into porn addiction. The advice in this book would have saved me from a lot of that pain, and even though I'm aleady in a better place now, this book provided a lot of perspective to what it took to climb out of that pit. Now I believe I have a better direction to keep moving forward.

One of the most important books a Christian man can read!

In this book, Giff Lasta answers some of the most important questions Christian men (and men in general) find themselves asking today — questions about manhood, leadership, sexuality, and male-female social dynamics. Beyond simply answering these questions, Lasta actually explains the natural and biblical principles that ground the answers, and also shares practical advice for men who want to change their ways in light of these principles. The timeless wisdom Lasta shares in this humble book ought to be common knowledge in any “Christian” society, but it isn’t. This unfortunate fact makes The Way of Men with Maids one of the best books I’ve ever read. I learned a lot, and I’ll definitely be telling others about it.