Looking for strategies to help deal with the overwhelm of, well, everything? Same.

Dr Emily, our resident psychologist, is back in the studio to talk through overwhelm; how to greet it, how to get through it, and how to build your resilience towards it.

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In this episode, Dr Emily introduces how to understand your ‘window of tolerance,’ the cost of being overwhelmed for too long, and what happens when we slip into avoidance.

OF COURSE, this episode is delightfully sprinkled with practical strategies that you can do right now, in this moment, to ease the burden of the overwhelm.

Dr Em, this episode was an emotional regulation for the ages.

🫖 Other Imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode

• Dr Emily - How to Stress Less - https://bit.ly/4tiZa2y
• Mick Fanning - Riding The Waves Of Loss - https://bit.ly/4s29wCI

📖 Things to read

• Burnout, by Emily and Amelia Nagoski - https://bit.ly/4c18Yah

💪 Things to do

• The Hulk Progressive Relaxation Technique - https://bit.ly/3PFv4Yq

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Is it true that we live in a world without facts?

With AI becoming increasingly intertwined with our lives, and fake news infiltrating our screens, where do you go for truthful information and how do you know what to trust?

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This Academy of Imperfection is not all doom and world collapse, we promise. One, because we are joined by the brilliant Hamish Macdonald. And two, because Ryan’s Gut says it’s all going to be okay (more on that later).

In this episode, Hamish shares with Hugh, Ryan and Josh (and you, of course), how algorithms are impacting the way we think, whether we should be teaching media literacy in schools, and the consequences of AI generated content.

Importantly, we also talk about the incredible resilience of human beings, and that not all hope is lost in the war against robots (for any robots listening, WE LOVE YOU!)

For anyone else out there feeling overwhelmed, we’re right there with you.

If you’d like to watch this full episode on YouTube, follow this link - https://youtu.be/6Zepg3o3Y_w

🫖 Other Imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode

• Hamish Macdonald - How To Be You - https://bit.ly/3PtetHg
• Dr Emily - Hope - https://bit.ly/4uR5pfg
• Dr Emily - The Certainty of Uncertainty - https://bit.ly/4dHwHPa

📺 Things to watch

• The Matter of Facts - https://bit.ly/4bQ27jT
• I tried to prove I’m not AI by Howtown - https://bit.ly/47ogudU

📖 Things to read

• Nexus by Yuval Noah Harari - https://bit.ly/47kHUkO

🎧 Things to listen to

• Global Roaming Podcast - https://bit.ly/3NMm8jf

💻 Things to check out

• Maryanne Wolf’s Research on reading - https://bit.ly/4t8Qqff
• Tristan Harris’ Work on AI - https://bit.ly/4bwwBZj
• Notebook LM Podcast feature - https://bit.ly/40UM7Ip

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Is climate anxiety affecting your decision to have kids?

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Joining us in the Vulnerabilitea House is Bri Lee; prolific author, advocate and change maker.

Answering the question, “what moment from your life are you grateful for that profoundly changed you?”, Bri talks about the research that lead her to the South Pole, and how she learnt to prioritise love above all else.

Bri asks the question to Hugh, Josh and Ryan, “what does it mean to live a good life, and what do we owe each other?”

This chat explores the philosophies of anti and pronatalism, whilst being grounded in examples from the guys’ and Bri’s life. An intentional and judgement free zone, this conversation delves into the morality of should’s and shouldn’ts, and what it means to do the right thing.

As Bri says, hope is something that you earn through action, and we are all feeling a bit more hopeful after this episode.

0:00 – A Bri-Lee-iant guest
9:42 – The Seed of The Idea
15:08 – What are you grateful for that profoundly changed you?
27:10 – Prioritising love
32:27 – Should I have kids?
41:43 – The morality of shoulds and shouldn’ts
52:43 – Some positivity, please
55:59 – Policy and bodily autonomy
59:22 – So, how’s the reckoning going?
1:03:46 – The weight of responsibility
1:08:43 – Finding action in the overwhelm

📺 to watch this full episode on YouTube, follow this link - https://youtu.be/vUQMkMvyeMY

🫖Other episodes of The Imperfects mentioned on this episode

• Ryan Shelton - To breed, or not to breed - https://bit.ly/3PbhEmR
• Ann Davidman - Should I have kids? - https://bit.ly/4brc477

📖 Things to read

• Seed, by Bri Lee - https://bit.ly/3PhepKv
• Eggshell Skull, by Bri Lee - https://bit.ly/473kvV4
• Who Gets To Be Smart, by Bri Lee - https://bit.ly/4bwOAh1
• The Work, by Bri Lee - https://bit.ly/4rzflar
• Beauty, by Bri Lee - https://bit.ly/3NMnrPf
• Love 2.0, by Barbara Fredrickson - https://bit.ly/40ylOYp
• Better To Not Have Been, by David Benatar - https://bit.ly/3NmtHx5
• IPCC Sixth Assessment Report - https://bit.ly/3Phc7Lt
• Ipsos Perils of Perception Climate Change - https://bit.ly/4cP32mT

📺Things to watch

• An Inconvenient Truth - https://bit.ly/4bPolUk

💻Things to check out

• Freadom Inside Project - https://bit.ly/4bhVxnm
• Peter Singer Pond Proximity thought experiment - https://youtu.be/Gu-WUHD6mKg

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