The Good Goodbye

The Transformative Power of Conversation at the End of Life

De: Maureen P. Keeley Ph.D, Julie M. Yingling Ph.D

Narrado por: Amy Johnson

Communication experts offer examples and expertise about end-of-life conversations to inspire, teach, and encourage the reader to have their own and to grow from them.

Death is one thing we cannot control. We will all face the death of a loved one. And many, if not most, people in our culture will be hesitant and unprepared to say goodbye.

The Good Goodbye is meant to help those who must say goodbye to a loved one who is dying. In it, readers will discover how culture affects final conversations, and that often the last interactions may not consist of words but gestures and expressions. They will find examples from real people interviewed over many years, with themes that include love, everyday talk, taking care of business, identity messages, spiritual messages, and healing difficult relationships.

Readers will learn about the positive outcomes of final conversations, both from the advice of children and the detailed stories of adults who were changed profoundly in their attitudes and life paths. They will also see that many people have experienced communication with their loved one after that loved one has passed. Finally, readers will discover how others have overcome negativity to engage in the good goodbye, and how they can improve their own preparedness to have final conversations.

Anyone who faces the death of a loved one—and that will be all of us—can gain from reading this book. We have found that hospice workers, nurses, caregivers, assisted-living personnel, spiritual advisors, and grief groups are especially interested. But anyone who is walking the path with someone close who is dying will seek this information and enjoy the inspiration.

The main message: Be there. Listen. Love. Be grateful for the opportunity to grow.

Reseñas de la Crítica

“This compassionate and gentle read offers invaluable guidance for navigating end-of-life conversations with loved ones. Through heartfelt stories, it helps ease the fear and uncertainty that often accompany this delicate time. Speak from the heart with those you cherish, and let this book be a gift—not only for them but for yourself as well.”
— Beth Leconte, executive director, Osher Lifelong Learning Institute, University of Rhode Island


“An important book on a much-needed subject.”
— Bronnie Ware, author of The Top Five Regrets of the Dying


“An invaluable guide for the most poignant moment each of us will face in life—the death of a loved one. With insight illuminated by years of studying end-of-life conversations, the authors present practical wisdom for making the final goodbye a time imbued with love and grace. This beautifully written book, interwoven with the stories of those who have experienced final conversations with loved ones, offers comfort to the dying and hope for the living.”
— Steven A. Beebe, Ph.D., Regents’ and University Distinguished Professor Emeritus, past president, National Communication Association


“The Good Goodbye could not be timelier. In a culture terrified of death, it is refreshing to hear stories about the power of connection and communication at the end of life. This book has the potential to truly change lives and relationships.”
— Dr. Mark Generous, associate professor, Department of Communication, California State Polytechnic University, Pomona


“Maureen and Julie have created an educational and inspiring resource to open our hearts and minds to the many gifts of final communications with our loved ones. These shared words and messages will help us and our loved ones to live presently, to communicate openly and beyond words, and to die peacefully. The conversations, summaries, and tips provide insight, comfort, and helpful discussion starters to help us, at all ages, have a good goodbye.”
— Kathy O’Neel Webster, certified death doula


“Every day is a gift and a challenge when supporting the Dying. These authors have shared stories, conversations, and helpful tips from the Living who have experienced living with the Dying. This book is a must-read for anyone caring for or supporting a dying relative, friend, or patient.”
— MJ Henderson, MS, RN, GNP-BC (retired), gerontological nursing consultant