“Sometimes I Don’t Like My Child”

New Insights On How To Fix This Problem, Greatly Improve Relations, And Stop Hurting From Pain & Guilt

De: Pat Fonda

Narrado por: Virtual Voice

Do you sometimes secretly, with guilt, admit a painful truth: that you don’t always like your kid?

Do you miss days when you had a happy, healthy relationship… when she wasn’t a pain, didn’t argue with you all the time – and was fun to be around?

Do you feel helpless as this goes from bad to worse?

Well, the best gift you can give this kid this holiday season is start now and greatly improve relations.

Here’s a compelling reason:

“Bad marriages start in childhood; with impaired parent-child relationships; with parents who are emotionally unavailable to their kids. For girls, this leads to relationship addiction.” ~ Robin Norwood, therapist.

Here’s the story…An impaired parent-child relationship can lead to:

• Young women who don’t know how to behave with a man that’s kind, considerate, and really interested in them.
• When such a man comes into her life, she’s usually not interested.
• In her marriage, she gets addicted to the pain and familiarity of an unrewarding relationship.
• This afflicts women from families where they were very lonely and isolated, or rejected, or overly burdened with responsibilities.
• Boys too get damaged in equally horrible ways.

Raising kids to be successful, happy and fulfilled is our legacy. That said, there’s nothing like a bad marriage to kill this dream. Maybe you’ve lived in a bad relationship; or felt the pain of being isolated and emotionally distant from a partner – and craving to feel safe, heard and understood. Or the pain of walking on egg shells, unsure how to reverse a tempestuous turn in a relationship. You could spare your kid this pain, because, though you don’t like her, you likely still love her. Blame this fix on the times/equality. The act of juggling work and family can easily result in kids feeling isolated and emotionally unattached.

Other benefits to rebuilding relations with this kid:

#1: My A.D.E.P.T formula starts with Accepting your feelings, and accepting your kid as she is. Something so simple will let you feel less pain and guilt. De-escalating: Minimize negativity and the emotional poison. End the pain you feel when anticipating to meet your kid. Engagement: Become adept at being on the same page, and improving communications to create a positive climate. Position yourself to be your kid’s model and mentor. A technique I give you makes it easy – it taps into the strong attachment kids have for their parents from infancy. Transformation: Go from foe to being your kid’s friend. This speeds bonding as you may know from when your kid was fun to be around. Deep bonds give you leverage – and survive the storms of adolescence

#2: A simple change that ends fear when you’ll be meeting your kid. Go from sad musings like “I hope he’s not going to start up again today. I’m so sick of him.” To “What skills can I deploy so we won’t get into an argument as soon as I walk in the door tonight?” This highly effective skill was invented by Harvard scientists

#3: Six films that’ll make you the parent your kid dreams you could be. Becoming a great parent may not cost you more than a month’s subscription to Amazon video

#4: Is finding time to be a good parent an issue? I show you how to find time, not only to parent better, but to start that hobby you’ve shelved

#5: An insightful look at 5 thinking errors kids make that cause acting-out behavior. You’ll find you can halt a lot of it – and stop about 90% of issues you have with your kid

#6: You’ll stop defaulting to “punishing” your kid. Instead, you’ll focus more on helping her achieve competence, self-control, self-direction, social skills
Grab the book now; get back on good terms with your kid ASAP