Self-Sabotage

And Other Ways I’ve Spent My Time

De: Jeffery Self

Narrado por: Jeffery Self

"Jeffery takes us on a wild—sometimes shocking—and always funny romp."—Andy Cohen

In the vein of works by Gary Janetti and Danny Pellegrino, an honest, funny, and heartfelt memoir-in-essays about chasing your dreams, making big messes, and finding yourself along the way.

In in his debut book for adults, Jeffery Self invites readers into his world, taking them through the usual foibles of gay adolescence, amplified in the vast wasteland of the American South and the odd characters who peopled it, from shoddy community theater productions to underage drinking with Broadway stars, from downtown comedy rooms to adventure-filled bedrooms. Along the way, he shares his experiences of acting in TV and film, touring live comedy around the world, getting booed off gay cruise ships, a tenure in the "oldest profession," meeting his heroes, falling in love, getting his heart broken, breaking other people's hearts, being hated, hating himself, and on the best of days, finding stuff to like about himself, too.

Self-Sabotage is a deeply personal and intimate exploration of Self's life, filled with humor, heartache, and a hearty dose of bipolar disorder. It asks the profound question of how you become the person you want to be when so much of yourself is a secret—and how you learn to accept yourself when it's not. It is also, of course, side-splittingly funny.

©2025 Jeffery Self (P)2025 HarperCollins Publishers

Smart, funny, heartbreaking

Jeffrey's book is a love letter to every smart, neurotic, dramatic, talented, ambitious, self-hating, big-hearted queer kid. Every essay is a gut punch in the best possible way - so funny and so brilliant.

Jeffrey we still love you

So many zigs and zags in life. Still a lot of life to live. Sail on silver bird.

All stories, but no “so what”

A good collection of stories for those interested in the author. Unfortunately, as a gay man with bipolar as well, I was hoping for more introspection and lessons learned from someone in a similar situation. I unfortunately did not get that and found this novel reflected more of a story of privilege and bits than what I was looking for.