Screen Time: the Full Picture

For Parents Who Want Facts, Not Fear

De: Aaron Brachfeld

Narrado por: Virtual Voice

Parents are told every day: “screen time is bad!" …even when experts at the AAP and other leading pediatric researchers actually DISAGREE.

Drawing from current research in easy to understand language, parents are presented with practical and science-based advice for practical parenting in the digital age, and are prepared to understand the research for themselves. And so when they are given distorted or misrepresented information, to ask the bold question: ...what if the real danger isn’t screens - but the way we are talking about them?

Table of Contents

What is “Screen Time” Anyway?

What is a Screen?

Passive vs. Interactive Screen Time

Social vs. Isolated Screen Time

This is Your Brain on CSPAN: Are Screens a Stimulant?

What Do the Studies Actually Say?

Understanding Correlation and Causation

Correlation Means Two Things Happen Together

Causation Means One Thing Causes the Other

Why This Matters for You

So What Should We Trust?

Importance of Sample Size

A Study of 12 Toddlers Doesn’t Speak for Your Child

Why Bigger Samples = Better Information

You Deserve Research That Respects Your Reality

Self-Reporting Bias

How Much Screen Time Did We Use Today?

Bias Goes Deeper: Who Gets Watched, Judged, and Punished?

A Quick Example: Arrests vs. Actual Crime

Who “Doesn’t Get Sick?”

When Bad Science Becomes a Crime

It Starts Small

What Counts as Neglect?

When Poverty Looks Like Neglect

“Addicted to Screens”

Why Blame the Parents?

Blame Game

Targeted Screen Shaming

Myth of the Stay At Home Mother, And Why So Much Advice Only Works in a World That Doesn’t Exist

Shame Proxies for Deeper Inequities, or Why When We Can’t Fix the System We Blame the Parent

Answer: the Phone

Screens as Effective Learning Tools

The Myth of the Lazy Teacher and Movie Day

Technology as a Teaching Tool

Screens Aren’t Replacing the Classroom

So Why the Panic?

The Better Question: Screens for Language Development

1. Screens Multiply Words a Child Hears

2. Screens Can Be Multilingual Teachers

3. Captions, Subtitles, and Read-Along Tools Build Literacy

4. Screens Give Kids Something to Talk About

5. Screens Can Model Rich, Nuanced Conversations

So Why the Panic?

Screens for Emotional Regulation Development

1. Regulation by Emulation

2. Emotional Coaching for Kids Without Coaches

3. Regulating in Real Time: Co-Watching and Talking

4. Why Screens Sometimes Are Calming-And That’s Okay

5. Modeling Isn’t Magic-It’s Muscle Memory

Screens as Tools of Survival: Inspiring and Empowering Teens

1. Starting a Business on a Phone

2. Getting Jobs, Gigs, and Scholarships

3. Confidential Health Access

4. Why Confidentiality Matters

5. Let’s Call This What It Is: Self-Empowerment

Screens for Role Models

2. A Window to See the Possible

3. Imagining Identity Before the World Offers One

4. Agency, Autonomy, and Voice

Screens as Connection to Distant Family, Culture, Creativity, Coding & So Much More

What Experts Actually Recommend

FaceBook is Not the Place For Nuance-Nor is the WIC Handout

Sample Flyer

Nuanced Position at the American Association of Pediatrics

Read it Yourself (on your phone!)

Skip to the End

What the AAP Actually Says

But… What About Children Under 2?

Read it Yourself (on your phone!)

What the AAP Actually Says

Other Nuanced Positions

Practical Parenting in a Digital Age

Practical Tips for Parenting

Practical Parenting with Screens

Questions to Ask Experts, Educators, & Providers

Final Word