In this episode of Saved Not Soft, I’m joined by my husband Malik Brookins for a real and honest conversation about dating, engagement, and marriage. We share our story, how we went from friends to dating to saying yes to forever, and what we learned along the way about trusting God with our relationship.

We talk about what it looks like to date intentionally, how to seek God while navigating feelings, how to approach engagement with wisdom, and how marriage continues to refine and grow you. Relationships can feel confusing, exciting, stretching, and beautiful all at once, and our hope is that this conversation encourages you to invite God into every stage of your love story.

Whether you are single, dating, engaged, or married, we pray this episode reminds you that healthy relationships are built with patience, prayer, humility, and a deep desire to honor the Lord.

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Suffering is unavoidable—but Scripture shows us it is never meaningless.

In this episode, we look closely at the sufferings of Jesus: His rejection, betrayal, silence before His accusers, physical agony, and ultimate obedience to the Father. Rather than rushing past the cross, we slow down to ask what Christ’s suffering reveals about God’s character—and how it reshapes the way we endure our own.

To suffer well is not to minimize pain or spiritualize injustice. It is to remain faithful, anchored, and surrendered when obedience is costly and understanding feels distant. Jesus shows us that suffering can be endured without bitterness, faced without despair, and offered back to God as worship.

This conversation invites listeners to reframe hardship through the lens of the cross—learning how to suffer with trust, humility, endurance, and hope—knowing that resurrection always follows faithful obedience.

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What if “daddy issues” isn’t your identity—but a distortion that healing was always meant to correct?

In this episode of Saved Not Soft, we confront the cultural narrative that reduces deep father wounds into a label, and we expose the lie beneath it. Through Scripture and lived experience, we talk about sonship, the difference between wounds and identity, and how deception forms when absence, abandonment, or misuse of authority goes unhealed.

This conversation isn’t about minimizing pain—it’s about redeeming it. We explore how the Father heart of God restores what earthly relationships could not, how Jesus reveals what true fatherhood looks like, and how healing begins when we stop defining ourselves by what was missing and start receiving what was always promised.

If you’ve wrestled with rejection, mistrust, or confusion around authority and love, this episode is an invitation to leave deception, step into truth, and rediscover your identity as a son or daughter—secure, seen, and fully known in Christ.

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