Navigating Important Events Without Appearing Clueless

Common sense advice, historical reflection and gift-giving savvy

“Our neighbor Susie is graduating. Are we expected to give a gift?”
“My friend just lost her husband, and I want to visit her. Does it matter that she’s Jewish?”
“Why do people host baby showers anyway?”
“Do I give a gift for my cousin’s Bar Mitzvah?”

We’ve all been there—facing a life event that calls for a response, but unsure what’s expected. Some traditions feel timeless, others confusing or outdated. Whether it’s a wedding, a funeral, or a retirement party, knowing what to do (and why) can make all the difference.

In this fully updated edition for today’s world, author Rebecca Black unpacks the history, meaning, and modern etiquette behind the most common life events. With warmth and clarity, she offers practical guidance for showing up with confidence, compassion, and cultural awareness.

Inside you'll find thoughtful advice on:

• Weddings, Bridal Showers, and Baby Showers
• Funerals, Grieving, and Religious Customs
• Birthdays and Coming-of-Age Ceremonies
• Graduation, Anniversaries, and Retirement Parties
• Christmas and Seasonal Traditions

Whether you’re attending, hosting, or simply trying to do the right thing, this book helps you navigate life’s milestones without feeling lost—or accidentally offending someone.

From the former owner of Etiquette Now!, Rebecca Black has taught thousands through her acclaimed workshops. Now, her expert advice is yours to enjoy—no expensive classes required.

Be socially savvy. Be authentically you. Enjoy the journey.