Miss America by Day

Lessons Learned from Ultimate Betrayals and Unconditional Love

De: Marilyn Van Derbur

Narrado por: Vanessa Zurawski

Miss America By Day won a 1st place in the prestigious Writer’s Digest National book competition.

In this long-awaited book, Van Derbur, a former Miss America, tells the story of how she was sexually violated by her father from age 5 to age 18. She was 53 years old before she was able to speak the words in public: "I am an incest survivor." She opened the door for tens of thousands of sexual abuse survivors to speak the words, many for the first time, within their own families and communities.

Van Derbur describes in detail what specific "work" she did on her successful journey from victim to survivor. Using her story as the scaffolding, she shares knowledge and insights she has gained after talking personally with adult survivors in 225 cities in which she has spoken.

With her extensive research on the long-term impact of trauma and her belief that prevention is the best weapon for keeping our children safe, Van Derbur urges parents to talk to children as young as five. Suggesting specific words, she helps set the stage for conversations that can evolve into positive continuous dialogues.

©2011 Marilyn Van Derbur (P)2025 Jones Crane

Reseñas de la Crítica

“I learned more from you in your 20 minute talk than I have learned in the last decade.” (Dr. Richard Krugman, Dean of the Univ. of Colo. School of Medicine)

“This is the finest book ever written on this subject.” (Eve Ensler, internationally known playwright and performer)

“This book had such a profound impact on me, I flew from South Carolina to Colorado to thank Marilyn personally.” (Cindy Tew, founder of Darkness to Light)

Fabulous, moving, deep.

Marilyn is an excellent writer who delves into a place many can’t go. I urge any survivor of loved one of survivors to read/listen. It’s like therapy.
Thank you, Marilyn.