Low Achieving Men

How to Spot Them and Handle Them

New, updated edition 2024. As a Certified Relationship Coach with 25+ years experience as a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Dr. Lyn Kelley gives you the complete low-down on low achieving, weak, passive men. You’ll learn why they are this way – and what to do about it! You’ll learn why high achieving women are drawn to low achieving men. Thomas Edison said, “Success is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration.” But that 1% drives the other 99%! Find out how to be that 1% for your man. Dr. Lyn gives you the ONLY strategies that will motivate him to be the partner and man you want him to be. • Passive and Passive Aggressive Men • Weak and Helpless Men • Shy and Socially Insecure Men • Uncommunicative and Withdrawn Men • Withholding Men • Depressed Men • Dreamers, Drifters and Serial Enthusiasts • Single Focus and ADD Men • Lazy Men • How to Inspire Your Man to Greatness • How to Motivate and Create Passion in Men

Some golden nuggets, some mediocre advice

Some of the advice given only made my male partner even more agitated and the passive aggressive ways of handling the garbage (as the example) only served to make pur household a disaster as he waited for me to cave in because he saw through this manipulation tactic. Also, the section about "focused" men doesn't have a disclaimer that the person could have ADD/ADHD and need help prioritizing tasks and that they genuinely don't mean to be neglectful/hurtful/ignoring you; they are hyperfocused on the other thing and are probably not actively avoiding you or responsibility.