Love Wars

Clash of the Parents

De: Matthew A. Tower, Chelsea Page - editor, Marcelo Anciano - editor

Narrado por: Matthew A. Tower, Laurence Bouvard, Martin T. Sherman, Antonio Mattera, Maxwell Apple, Isabella Mattera, Peter Marinker

Nate and Vanessa started The War, but only their son Matthew can end it!

Young Matthew’s world shatters when his parents split up and put him in the middle of their custody battle. Desperate to escape their never-ending conflicts, Matthew imitates his hero, Luke Skywalker, and launches an against-all-odds mission to stop Mom and Dad’s war of vengeance! Will Matthew’s little brother Thomas Rabbit help blow up the Divorce War Death Star, or will he hide and play with his bunnies?

Love Wars: Clash of the Parents is a true story of youthful bravery, and a wacky account of one family’s wretched yet hilarious nuclear meltdown . . . with an unexpected and unforgettable ending. Matthew A. Tower’s inspirational memoir is for listeners of all ages, whether or not they have been affected by divorce and family strife.

The dramatized, full-cast audiobook features immersive sound effects, an original score, and major music from hit artists such as Paul Simon, The Police, and Tears for Fears. Garrick Hagon and Liza Ross, the multiple-Audie award winning team at The Story Circle, produced and directed the audiobook.

©2025 Raja Media LLC and Matthew A. Tower (P)2025 Raja Media LLC and Matthew A. Tower

Love Wars

Divorce is often described as a battle, but Love Wars: Clash of the Parents shows what that battle feels like from the vantage point of a child caught in the crossfire. This is Matthew Tower’s own story, told through the lens of his childhood while his parents went through a messy divorce. It is presented as a story that can resonate with younger listeners who might be watching their own parents fight, but it is also clearly aimed at adults who want a reminder of how children absorb conflict.

The story is told from Matthew’s perspective as a kid trying to make sense of a family that is falling apart. He leans hard on Star Wars to map out the conflict. It becomes his way of explaining good and bad, loyalty and betrayal, and the confusion of being caught in the middle. The analogy makes sense for a young mind trying to organise chaos, and the audiobook keeps that thread running right through to the end.

I had a tough time connecting with it on a personal level. My own childhood had nothing like this level of drama, no screaming matches, no custody battles, no divorce. I did not even know anyone whose parents split up until much later in life. Listening to this felt a bit like having a front row seat to something I had never experienced before. Eye opening, definitely, but also distant. I imagine this would land more strongly for listeners who have lived through anything similar. For me, it sat at arm’s length.

The parents are a lot to take in. What begins as a loving marriage slides quickly into bitterness, and the tipping point seems to come not long after Matthew’s younger brother arrives. His mother in particular is confronting to listen to. She unloads her anger on the kids, compares their father to Hitler, twists their loyalties and keeps them close while she vents.

It gets worse as the story goes on, and some scenes made me stop the audio for a moment just to breathe. His father is not perfect either. He does not start the manipulation, but he falls into it once he realises what the mother has been doing. It turns into open warfare, and the kids sit right at the centre of it.

It is rough listening at times. The arguments are raw, the pettiness is relentless, and the verbal abuse is hard to sit through. There were long stretches where it felt like being locked in a room with two people who cannot stop hurting each other. It is compelling in the way real pain can be compelling, but also uncomfortable.

I kept thinking about the long tail of this kind of environment, the way trauma echoes through a family long after the fighting ends. Matthew works hard to break that cycle, and that thread gives the story some much needed grounding.

The full cast performance is strong. The voices suit the ages and roles, and the production is clear and steady. There is one short moment near the end where a retake stands out with a different audio quality, but it lasts only a sentence. The rest of the mix is clean. The emotion comes through without tipping into theatrical excess, which helps a story like this land more honestly.

I can see this being useful for adults who are in the middle of a divorce or separation, not as a guide but as a reminder that kids absorb far more than they can articulate. I am less sure young listeners would pick this up on their own, unless they are already dealing with something similar and want to feel less alone. For kids in comfortable homes like mine was, I suspect it would feel remote.

In the end, my heart goes out to Matthew and to any child who grows up inside a family that is splitting apart with that level of hostility. Love Wars is a confronting listen, sometimes unpleasant, but told with a clear intention to make sense of a painful time. Even though it did not mirror anything from my own life, I found it hard to stop listening.