Love, War, and ADHD

The Essential Guide to Taming the Turmoil, Reigniting the Passion, and Keeping the Faith When ADHD Turns Your Marriage Upside-Down

De: Phoenix J. Waldren

Narrado por: Phoenix J. Waldren

Love is messy. Add ADHD to the mix? Welcome to the emotional rollercoaster you didn’t know came with a seatbelt.

Love, War, and ADHD is the real-talk survival guide for couples navigating the wild, frustrating, and sometimes hilarious journey of marriage when one partner has ADHD. Whether you're the one with ADHD or the one holding the emotional duct tape, this audiobook will make you feel seen—and give you tools that actually work.

Inside, you’ll uncover:

Why ADHD isn’t just a “focus issue”—and how it shows up in your love life, communication, and daily chaos

The common landmines (think: missed dates, forgotten chores, impulsive fights) and how to avoid stepping on them

Faith-based encouragement for staying grounded when your relationship feels like it’s spinning

Strategies for rebuilding trust, intimacy, and teamwork—without sounding like a nag or a therapist

How to stop “parenting” your spouse and start partnering again

Honest stories, hard-earned lessons, and a whole lot of grace

Written by someone who’s lived it, this book isn’t sugarcoated or clinical. It’s for real couples who love each other but are exhausted from trying to make things work in a neurotypical world.

Whether you’re on the brink or just want to strengthen your bond, Love, War, and ADHD is your audio lifeline. Play it together. Pause when it hits home. Laugh when it hurts. Grow side by side.

Because even when ADHD drives your marriage wild—love is still worth the fight.

©2025 Phoenix J. Waldren (P)2025 Phoenix J. Waldren

ADHD Was Wrecking Us

I started this audiobook during a rough patch with my partner and wow, it nailed stuff we’ve never been able to say out loud. It didn’t try to fix either of us, just helped make sense of the chaos we kept bumping into. Hearing someone break it down with honesty and experience gave me a little hope and a lot to think about. If your relationship has taken a hit from ADHD, this one honestly helped me feel less alone.

What got Us finally talking again

I didn’t realize how much ADHD was messing with our communication until things started spiraling. This audiobook hit home in a way couples therapy hadn’t. It gave me real things to try no fluff, just stuff that actually helped calm the tension and reconnect. I started listening solo, then convinced my partner to try it too. We’re not perfect, but now we fight less and talk more. That alone made it worth it.

Raw, Real, and Totally Relatable

This one hit close to home. I’ve been in a relationship where ADHD was part of the mix, and so much of what’s shared here felt familiar—messy, frustrating, but also kind of validating. It doesn’t sugarcoat anything, which I appreciated. I caught myself nodding along, even laughing at moments that used to drive me nuts. If you've ever loved someone with ADHD or lived it yourself .. this adds a layer most books just skip over.

Power-packed with information

This guide really gives one all the necessary tools needed to navigate thorough it all. Especially in the unsure moments.

Finally Something That Got Us

My partner has ADHD and honestly, it’s been hard figuring out how to not feel like I’m constantly managing everything. This audiobook hit home in so many ways it felt like someone had been listening in on our arguments and emotional messes. It gave us real things to try, but more than that, it helped us talk without defensiveness for once. We didn’t finish it in one go, but that was actually good, we paused a lot and actually talked. That alone made it worth it.