How to Date Authentically

End the Dating "Game" and Find Lasting Love

De: Sam D Whitney

Narrado por: Sam Whitney

Discover the dating book that finally goes deep enough to transform your results.

Dating today can feel like a strange game you never agreed to play. One moment you feel hopeful, and the next you’re staring at your phone, over analyzing, and wondering what went wrong. You keep meeting people, but something about the whole experience feels off, shallow, or exhausting.

What if the real issue isn’t who you’re dating, or even your technique, but something deeper?

In How to Date Authentically, Sam Whitney offers a simple but powerful idea: most of us are dating with the wrong goal in mind. We're trying to be “right” about love instead of learning how to be genuinely happy in it. Once you understand that shift, everything changes.

Through honest stories, clear examples, and short, practical chapters, this book will help you:

• Identify the hidden mindset that quietly sabotages your relationships
• Let go of the fear of “settling” so you can make calmer, wiser choices
• Recognize your patterns without beating yourself up
• Create better connections by being present, curious, and straightforward
• Know what to look for in a great relationship, not just a great date

Inside, Sam introduces two very different dating worlds: the self-focused World of Right and the connection-focused World of Happy. Instead of chasing the perfect story or the perfect person, you learn how to build something real with another person.

This book is for you if:

• You’re tired of short or confusing relationships that go nowhere
• You want to feel seen and valued, not evaluated or graded
• You’re willing to look at yourself with honesty and hope
• You want to stop overthinking every text and start enjoying dating again
• You care more about a great relationship than a perfect dating “story”

If you’re ready to end the dating game, see people more clearly, and build love on a stronger foundation, this book will show you how to start.

Choose now to end the dating game and find lasting love.

©2024 Sam Whitney (P)2024 Sam Whitney

Refreshing view of why and how to date!

Sam’s approach to dating is applicable to all of life- be real and honest while being interested in the big life stories of others. I found his approach very freeing and helpful, less formulaic than most dating books. He breaks the mold that dating and finding the one is all about me and the life I want to craft. I had been finding the cultural mindset sickening of: “this person is the right one because they make me feel or add this good thing to my life or understand me so well”. Sam explains so well why this mindset focused on me doesn’t work. Instead he inspires a different goal of seeing other people as just as important as myself- which makes dating a celebration rather than a game.

Choosing to be happy not right

The simplicity and complexity of this book is very thought proving. It is simple because many of the action items mentioned in the book are not hard to implement in our daily lives. But the complexity comes in transforming the tendency to be right and choosing to change and improve how we view others and how we can be happy by being authentic and seeing others for who they truly are. I am excited to implement some of the suggestions in this book in my own life. Wish me luck and thank you Sam for sharing this book with all of us. -Stef