HOW TO LOVE

GET IT GOIN' ON

De: DR PAUL TEICH

Narrado por: Virtual Voice

It has been said that the definition of love is to realize that someone else’s joy is more important than your own. That is actually in the folk song, SAVE OUR LOVE, which findable on YouTube. In the beginning of the song there is an oration that goes something like this. This is the third song I wrote and this one is called save our love. This is kind of a theme song for seventy percent of the men or ninety percent of the women or one hundred percent of everybody and if we could just listen to our spouse or whoever we are with and if they say I like something well maybe we shoulda aughta do it again. How about that American colloquialism huh? If they say I don’t like something well maybe we shouldn’t aughta do it again. And maybe it’s just that simple and maybe we shouldn’t assimilate it and correlate it and decide how much I should do for her based on what she did for me and how much she should do for me based on what I did for her, but we should realize what the definition of love is which is realizing that somebody else’s joy is more important than yours. Now that sir can be the difference between a life and a happy life. It is certainly the difference between a wife and a happy wife. I hope you can save your love. Love is the most basic desire, want and need more than money, power or even chocolate. Some have said lust, as the hairless apes that humans are usually can’t get their hand out of their pants and their mind out of someone else’s, but when all else fades there is only friendship and the love that has grown from it or there is nothing at all. An orthodox woman was once discussing her arranged marriage with me and the reasons for it. I am from a nonsecular background so I just did not understand. She said that they had written to each other but had never met. He would not even see her face until after the wedding. They would become friends more and more every day after the wedding. They would do for each other and for their families as much as they cold every day. They would become more familiar with each other every day after the wedding. They would be kind to each other on purpose every day. They would begin to love each other every day after the wedding more and more. They would discover each other sexually more and more as they became comfortable with each other more and more. She said that that special sexual relationship would only be shared with husband and wife, no one else and it would be the most special sacred relationship in their lives. She was very glad she got married the way she did. She said that people like me might have many lovers and even live with and make love for years before marriage. She felt that robbed the wedding night. She felt that robbed me of the special sacred sexual relationship. She did not need to compare her husband with others. Sex was great with him, they tried to please each other and it’s not that that was just good enough, it was beautiful to her. She felt that we already know our spouse in every way and the key element to her was that in her way the married couple becomes more and more in love as time passes. With our way we seem to love each other less and less every day after marriage and there is nothing to explore or find out and there is nothing really new. All this to say, perhaps we should slow down. When it comes to loving someone maybe it is important to find out what brings the other person joy and I don’t mean sex, that will cum and so will you, perhaps we should not prematurely ejaculate the relationship. Did you ever think about that? Did you ever watch the Adams family and see how Gomez Woo’s Morticia? HE IS MY ROMANTIC HERO!!! Please find the object of your desires and find out what brings him or her joy. If bringing them this fills your heart with love then you should be together. Remember this is a two way street so if it is not returned then there is a fine line between serving your mistress and treating her as if she were the most sublime creatur