Don't Follow the Money

Two Stories at the Heart of the Gender and the Nature V. Nurture Debate

De: Toby Unterfranz LPC

Narrado por: Molly Secours

This book shares two true stories that show how medicine can change a person’s life in very different ways—and how the difference often comes down to whether someone is truly listened to.

The first story is about a young child whose life took a sudden turn after a medical accident. Instead of finding ways to help him heal, doctors decided to follow their own idea about what would be “best,” without asking or giving him a choice. They changed his body and told his parents to raise him in a completely different identity. As he grew up, nothing felt right. He didn’t understand why he felt so different from everyone else or why he didn’t fit in. The truth was kept from him for years, and by the time he learned it, he had already lived through a childhood filled with confusion, pain, and questions that no one had answered.

The second story takes place in an unexpected place—a small, quiet town far from the spotlight. There, a local doctor began offering medical help that almost no one else in the country was willing to provide at the time. People traveled from across the country, often in secret, to see him. Many had been turned away by other doctors or faced judgment and shame. In this small clinic, they found something they had been searching for their whole lives: not just treatment, but understanding, dignity, and the freedom to be themselves.

When these two stories are told side by side, the difference is clear. One is about having an identity forced from the outside, the other about having an identity affirmed from within. Together, they show how powerful medicine can be—both for harm and for healing. They

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