Dignity

Seeking Respect in Back Row America

De: Chris Arnade

Narrado por: Donte Bonner

"Candid, empathetic portraits of silenced men, women, and children." --Kirkus

Widely acclaimed photographer and writer Chris Arnade shines new light on America's poor, drug-addicted, and forgotten--both urban and rural, blue state and red state--and indicts the elitists who've left them behind.

Like Jacob Riis in the 1890s, Walker Evans in the 1930s, or Michael Harrington in the 1960s, Chris Arnade bares the reality of our current class divide in unforgettable true stories. Arnade's raw, deeply reported accounts cut through today's clickbait media headlines and indict the elitists who misunderstood poverty and addiction in America for decades.

After abandoning his Wall Street career, Arnade decided to document poverty and addiction in the Bronx. He began interviewing, photographing, and becoming close friends with homeless addicts, and spent hours in drug dens and McDonald's. Then he started driving across America to see how the rest of the country compared. He found the same types of stories everywhere, across lines of race, ethnicity, religion, and geography.

The people he got to know, from Alabama and California to Maine and Nevada, gave Arnade a new respect for the dignity and resilience of what he calls America's Back Row--those who lack the credentials and advantages of the so-called meritocratic upper class. The strivers in the Front Row, with their advanced degrees and upward mobility, see the Back Row's values as worthless. They scorn anyone who stays in a dying town or city as foolish, and mock anyone who clings to religion or tradition as naïve.

As Takeesha, a woman in the Bronx, told Arnade, she wants to be seen she sees herself: "a prostitute, a mother of six, and a child of God." This book is his attempt to help the rest of us truly see, hear, and respect millions of people who've been left behind.

Author's objective

The author's objective of exposing America's "back row" was monumental and courageous. I agree that United States of America has been de-industrialized and replaced with drug infestation by unsavory Globalist (within our own country and) by foreign stakeholders. The author is an apologist for socialism and this book feeds the extreme left's revolution of the US Government. The author's suggestions to fix our "broken meritocracy" originates from Marxist ideology and are extremely dangerous. Left-wing "Power is not a means; it is an end. One does not establish a dictatorship in order to safeguard a revolution; one makes the revolution in order to establish the dictatorship," O'Brien tells the hapless Winston Smith in the novel 1984. "The object of the left's power is power." The nightmares of the French Revolution, the Soviet Union, Communist China and Pol Pot’s Cambodia weren’t accidental misfires: they’re the essential truth of what the Left is - Terror. Terror is in the political DNA of every radical movement. The arc of the Left is always radical. Government solutions are not the answer. I believe the answer lies in scholarships to charter schools, prayer and Judeo-Christian doctrine of reward for hard work and charity from the private sector. Utopia will never exist by government mandate; it must come from the heart and soul of mankind.

Must read for a compassionate America

This book humanizes so many people that are viewed as being left behind. We need to use the covid WFH experience to help rebuild communities that were once viewed as too far removed from urban centers.

loved it.

my rewards to the author, mind opening, enjoyed it very much. almost made me cry at times...

Dignity, despite drugs

I enjoyed the author’s admissions and accountability, but I was looking for more of an explanation about the relationship between drugs and dignity, in light of the fact that soooo many of the folks he met that were struggling with drugs.

Written for the elites by an elite

I listened to the entire book. it wasn't until the end that I realized this is just another expression of the same stuff...different day. feel bad about who you are and your privilege....but don't give it up....just feel bad about it.
You want a solution...here is mine. just help one person at a time...one action at a time. If you are a minority or poor...jump through a few hoops...we all have to do it. if you addicted...go through withdrawal and deal with it....the same way others do. if you are privileged...share your information with one other person who isn't. dont try to save the world.... this has been happening across time and the world. America is no different. if I was this guys family I'd be all like "I hope it was worth 5 years of our life together". kind of feel bad for them.

Sobering & Eye Opening

Though the subject matter was painful and real this book was eye-opening and helped me see things from the perspective of the others that I have previously ignored. There were parts of this book that made me uncomfortable with myself and the way I think about folks that may not be in the same social situation.

I recommend this book

No easy answers

This survey of stories about real life people sheds a bit of light and offers some enlightening points of view, but ultimately admits that there are no easy solutions to the perceived problems of poverty, discrimination, and vice. The author reveals some of his own ideological biases, which tint his hermeneutics. Underlying the whole narrative is an exposé of the human condition, and our need for a savior that no program, policy, or non-profit can ever provide. I finished this book thinking that we need to give people the room to figure things out for themselves instead of trying to fix their lives.

Every elite should read this

Chris Arnade goes where few dare, lending his voice to those forgotten in the back row. Instead of talking "about" it, he lets those who live it do the talking. Eye and heart opening. Must read.

Get to the point...

This entire book is summed up in the last ten minutes. You really only need the first chapter and the last few pages the rest is stories of individuals who are to use the authors term "Members of the Back Row". I read this book to read another book after I read an article about the second book (Alienated America) and listened to a pod cast the author referenced this book and I decided I should read it before I read his. I am not sure either book is worth the read at this point.

The "forgotten"

The man spend years talking to the poorest and "forgotten" people in America - black-white-hispanic-Somali- everybody. FIVE Main Take-aways: (1) All of the crime and poverty of the blacks is due to white racism (2) Factories left towns BECAUSE and whenever a black got elected as mayor (3) Whites fled towns where factories left town because regardless of how poor they were, they could afford to move while blacks could not (4) the few whites that could not move out and are in the same dire straits as blacks are drug-addled, uneducated prostitutes and sex offenders who have been united by Trump's racist rhetoric and (5) "front-row" white people, like the self-accused author, are the cause of all grief in black America must do more than just Affirmative Action for a few. As a minority person, I was deeply offended by this book.