Dad, Not Visitor

Reclaiming Presence in Co-Parenting

Dad, Not Visitor: Reclaiming Presence in Co-Parenting by Logan Carr

You didn’t sign up to be a weekend visitor in your own child’s life—yet the hand-offs, the court orders, and the emotional whiplash can make fatherhood feel part-time. Dad, Not Visitor hands you the practical playbook for staying present, calm, and confidently connected—no matter what the custody schedule says.

Coach-turned-author Logan Carr blends real-world scripts, low-budget “dad date” ideas, and steady mindset shifts that work in actual busy lives. Learn how to:

• Build kid-centric calendars that kill drama, not joy

• Defuse co-parent conflicts with three-sentence texts

• Turn limited hours into high-impact rituals

• Anchor your child’s big feelings without losing your cool

• Evolve from authority to mentor to trusted friend—season by season

Filled with reflection prompts, plug-and-play checklists, and bonus tools you’ll use the same day, this is a grounded guide for men who want to parent from clarity, not guilt. Presence isn’t about perfect conditions; it’s about showing up on purpose—every single time.