Before the Ring

Healing the Patterns That Choose the Wrong Love: A Christian Women’s Guide to Emotional Healing & God-Centered Relationship Wisdom

De: Marilla Hope Winters

Narrado por: Virtual Voice

Before the Ring: Healing the Patterns That Choose the Wrong Love

Are you tired of repeating the same painful relationship patterns? Do you find yourself attracted to men who can't love you well? Have you confused intensity with intimacy, chemistry with compatibility, or spiritual confirmation with your own desperate desire?

If you're a Christian woman who keeps choosing the wrong love - or wondering why the right love hasn't found you yet - this book is for you.

Before the Ring is not another dating advice book filled with strategies to attract a husband. This is a relationship-healing roadmap for women who are ready to stop choosing from their wounds and start choosing from their wholeness.

In this deeply compassionate and refreshingly honest guide, you'll discover:

• Why you're drawn to emotionally unavailable men (and how to recalibrate your attraction)
• The difference between chemistry and compatibility - and why intensity isn't confirmation
• How childhood attachment patterns shape every relationship you enter as an adult
• The wounds you're calling "preferences" and how they're sabotaging your love life
• Why God heals in layers, not events - and how to release shame around slow healing
• How to discern God's voice from your own trauma, fear, and desperate longing
• The truth about boundaries (and why they're not a sin)
• How to recognize healthy love when your nervous system only knows chaos
• Red flags Christian women spiritualize - and how to stop overriding discernment
• What it means to become emotionally available to the love you've been praying for

Author Marilla Hope Winters writes with the wisdom of someone who's walked this journey herself - through a painful first marriage, divorce, years of healing, and ultimately remarriage to a man whose love didn't require her to lose herself. As an HR professional, certified coach, and member of her church prayer team, Marilla brings both personal insight and spiritual depth to these pages.

This isn't a book about finding Mr. Right. This is a book about becoming the woman who can recognize him when he arrives.

With the warmth of a wise older sister and the insight of someone who understands trauma, attachment wounds, and the unique struggles of Christian women, Marilla guides you through:

• Understanding the unseen patterns choosing your relationships
• Healing attachment wounds and childhood trauma
• Breaking free from codependency and people-pleasing
• Distinguishing between emotional hunger and spiritual readiness
• Building the self-trust and emotional sobriety needed for healthy love
• Preparing for partnership as a covenant, not a rescue mission

Perfect for:

• Single Christian women tired of repeating painful patterns
• Those who feel "stuck" in their dating lives despite doing everything "right"
• Anyone who's spiritualized red flags or stayed too long in the wrong relationship
• Women who want to understand why they're attracted to unavailable men
• Those preparing their hearts for healthy marriage

If you've ever wondered:

• Why do I keep choosing men who can't love me well?
• How do I tell the difference between God's voice and my own desire?
• Why does healthy love feel boring compared to intensity?
• Am I too broken for a healthy relationship?
• How long will this healing take?

...this book offers not just answers, but a path forward.

The woman you're becoming is worthy of the love that's coming for you. And the love that's coming for you is worthy of the woman you're becoming.

Start your healing journey today. Before the ring. Before forever. Before you choose the wrong love.