Be You or Be Nothing

The Radical Art of Self-Liberation

What if the biggest lie you’ve ever believed… was the one you tell yourself every day?

You wake up, go through the motions, check the boxes—success, relationships, approval. On the outside, your life works. But inside? There’s a quiet, gnawing truth:

This isn’t me.

You were never meant to live life on autopilot. You were meant to achieve your full potential—without shrinking, filtering, or playing by someone else’s rules.

In Be You or Be Nothing, Alden Vale delivers a raw, no-BS guide to breaking free from expectations, unlocking radical authenticity, and living with unshakable self-confidence. If you’ve spent years people-pleasing, second-guessing yourself, or feeling like you’re living a script someone else wrote—this is your wake-up call.

Inside, you’ll learn how to:

• Unmask the tiny betrayals that disconnect you from your true self
• Break the cycle of people-pleasing, second-guessing, and overthinking
• Build self-worth and confidence without needing external validation
• Master assertiveness training so you can speak up and stand tall
• Tap into your inner child’s boldness and rediscover who you really are
• Adopt a personal growth mindset that fuels unstoppable momentum
• Make bold, aligned choices—without waiting for “the right time”

If you’re done living for approval and ready to claim your life, this book is your way out.

You won’t be for everyone. And that’s the point.

Stop settling. Start living. Order your copy now.

very thought-provoking

Spoke was very encouraging. And a time when so many are overwhelmed his words bring logic back to the equation.