When Did We Forget How to Hang Out? The Return to Analog

A jury just ruled that Meta and YouTube were “deliberately built to be addictive.” Chris and Des have been waiting for this moment and it just happens that it landed the same week the analog revolution smacked Chris in the face at the Mall of America.

In this free-flowing episode, Chris and Des unpack Big Tech’s “Big Tobacco moment,” the irony of #analoglife trending on TikTok, and the deep human need for third places, adult friendships, and unstructured play. Des shares her journey from nomadic isolation to betting on Santa Fe. Chris confesses to 10 unplayed board games and commits to finding a group for game night. Together they explore dinner-with-strangers apps, murder mystery parties, community education catalogs, conversational card games, and the terrifying beauty of walking into a room where you don’t know a soul.

It’s group therapy disguised as cultural commentary. And this time, the homework is fun: get offline, get out there, and find your people.

Timestamps:

0:00 — Intro & DTF St. Louis Review

5:46 — The Meta/YouTube Negligence Verdict

9:30 — Mall of America and the Analog Revolution

11:20 — The Loss of Third Places

14:30 — Pickup Basketball & How We Used to Find Community

24:00 — Small Towns vs. Suburbs vs. Cities

27:30 — Bowling Alone and the History of Civic Decline

31:00 — Chick-fil-A Phone Coops & the Algorithm Irony

35:00 — Dinner With Strangers Apps (Timeleft, Bass)
40:00 — Why We’re Scared to Talk to People

44:30 — Adult Play, Super Soakers, and Murder Mystery Parties

46:00 — The Delve Deck: A Card Game for All Generations
48:30 — Des’s Pledge: Sunset DJ Parties in Santa Fe

52:00 — Chris’s Pledge: Board Game Night and Cause-Based Community

58:00 — Wrap & Call to Action

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