Ep169: Arguing With Time

Every conversation has the potential to reveal something useful hidden within the ordinary, and this one delivers several of those moments. In this episode of Welcome to Cloudlandia, we catch up after Dan's 11th trip to Buenos Aires for his ongoing stem cell treatments, where he shares a remarkable milestone: a 12% increase in brain volume over three years, roughly equivalent to reversing 30 years of cognitive decline. The conversation flows naturally into Dean's growing practice of "phone fasting" and constraining his available hours, and how that's led to a heightened clarity about where attention actually goes each day. We then dig into the idea of "creating a better past", the practice of making today worth remembering tomorrow, and how this connects to calendar structure, scheduling disciplines, and the real cost of vague future planning. Dan shares why he treats his schedule as a commitment rather than a suggestion, and why words like "should," "would," and "could" are blame-shifting words that quietly block learning and behavior change. Dean's shift to locking in six months of workshops in advance gives a concrete example of how structure actually creates freedom. The episode closes on a thought worth sitting with: Dan's observation that at the bottom of all unhappiness, there's an argument with time. The conversation between these two has a way of making the abstract feel immediately actionable, worth your full attention. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Dan increased his brain volume by 12% in three years through stem cell treatments, equivalent to reversing roughly 30 years of cognitive decline.Only 0.05% of people are proactively using AI to create output, meaning the competitive advantage window for early adopters remains wide open.Strategic Coach's 250 thinking tools stay permanently "upstream" from AI, because AI can only work with what humans have already created and published.Dan eliminated "should," "would," and "could" from his vocabulary entirely, calling them blame-shifting words that signal complaint without any intention to change behavior.Dean locked in six full months of workshops in advance for the first time, discovering that visible structure on the calendar creates bookings, and momentum that vague future planning never could.Dan's rule for unhappiness: at the bottom of every persistent dissatisfaction, you'll find someone having an unwinnable argument with time. Links: WelcomeToCloudlandia.com StrategicCoach.com DeanJackson.com ListingAgentLifestyle.com TRANSCRIPT (AI transcript provided as supporting material and may contain errors) Dean: Welcome to Claudelandia. Mr. Sullivan. There he is. Are you in Argentina? Dan: Nope, nope. Dean: No, I'm Dan: Back in Toronto. No, we arrived about noon yesterday. We got back. Yeah. Dean: Okay. Joe is on his way. Dan: Yep. Yep. He left last night. Dean: Well, he didn't leave last night actually. Well, he missed his connection. So that's a problem. Yeah, hopefully he figured it out, but he was definitely on the ... We're not happy till you're not happy airline experience program. Dan: Yeah. Dean: So Garnet and Shirley, they were on the flight that took off. He was so frustrated. Yeah, he was so frustrated because he was on the runway or on the ramp and they were just taken off, so he missed just barely. Dan: You know, people are not necessarily talk about Joe, but I noticed a lot of people are throughout their entire life, they're about three hours late. Dean: Oh, just missed. Yeah, exactly. Dan: Yeah. Yeah. And if they just take one future event or one present event out of their life, they'd be on time, but there's always one thing that makes them three hours late. Dean: That's funny. Dan: Yeah. Dean: So you're in Toronto now? Dan: Yeah, just got back. Yeah. Yeah. Dean: Perfect. Dan: And the snow is starting to melt. Dean: Okay. That's what I hear. Dan: That's Dean: What I hear. You can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Dan: Yeah. Yeah. The power went out in our neighborhood last night. Suddenly it was just completely black, but at our house, five seconds later, the generator kicked in and we had full lights, electricity. Everything was working. Dean: Oh, see? Dan: Yeah. Dean: That's why you get a generator, right? Dan: Yep. Yep. Yep. Yep. Yep. Dean: Because that's like doing an experience transformer in advance. Dan: Yeah. Dean: Looking forward. Dan: I remember a New Yorker cartoon a long time ago, 30, 35 years. And it shows this elderly couple standing at a corner in New York City, a street corner. And right in the middle of the intersection is a dead elephant. Dean: Oh my. Dan: And the wife, the older lady is saying to her husband, "Elmer, I'm never going to complain about you bringing that elephant gun with you on a date." Dean: Oh my goodness. That's so funny. Better, safe than sorry. Dan: You never know when the elephant's going to show up. Dean: That's exactly right. Better to have the gun and not need it. Oh Dan: Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It ...