They Call Me Mista Yu - FLASHBACK: Sticks And Stones With A Twist - The Power Of Words

Our team thought it was a great idea to start rewinding previous (but timely) episodes of our show during the times that Mista Yu is away from the microphone. All of these beautiful Blasts from the Past were previously broadcast, but we are sharing them with you at a time when you might need them most. Hope you enjoy the review!

What if the old playground rhyme had it wrong all along? We go back to childhood moments that still sting, unpack why words linger like weather in a room, and ask how much of our present struggle comes from sentences we keep repeating to ourselves. From schoolyard mockery to boardroom shade, we explore how language shapes identity, atmosphere, and action—then test it with a simple experiment: imagine every word you speak for 24 hours becomes true. Would you change how you talk?

We pull apart the difference between positive reinforcement and positive affirmations and explain why mantras without movement stall. Pee Wee Herman comebacks and mirror pep talks make for good TV, but they don’t move you to a better table. Positioning does. We connect the dots between right place, right time, and right words, and we share a personal story about missing out for years—not from lack of skill, but from the quiet sabotage of negative self-talk—before landing in a role that finally fit once posture and practice aligned.

History speaks here too. We trace “sticks and stones” to an 1830s AME Church publication set amid revolts, removals, and reform, and we line it up with timeless Proverbs on how gentle words cool anger and cruel words boomerang harm. Along the way, we show how babies prove the point that words are alive, how trust erodes when promises meet no follow-through, and why action is the caboose that gives your speech shelter and sight. The takeaway is simple and demanding: steward your language, choose rooms that reward growth, and match your mouth with your moves.

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Our team will choose random (but timely) episodes from our previous three seasons (which are our most popular ever!) to share with our listeners during the slower parts of a long podcast season. We think you will enjoy them! Thanks for listening!

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