Bonus Episode: Why You Want Love But Push It Away (Disorganized Attachment) - Valentine’s Day Special, Part 1

Welcome back to the Let's Get Vulnerable Podcast and happy Valentine’s Day 💗 Whether you’re single, dating, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode is a reminder that love does not come into your life to fix you, save you, or fill a void. In this 2-Part Valentines Day Special Episode, I’m going deep into disorganized (fearful-avoidant) attachment, why you can crave closeness so deeply and then feel the urge to run the moment love starts to feel real. If you’ve ever wondered, “Why do I want love so badly… and then push it away?” this episode is for you. I’m sharing real examples, nervous-system truths, and the compassion you need to start understanding yourself instead of judging yourself.

Inside the episode:

1. Why disorganized attachment makes love feel both comforting and dangerous and how this creates the push-pull dynamic
2. How a dysregulated nervous system (not a lack of willpower or insight) drives self-sabotage, protest behaviors, and attraction to unavailable partners
3. What actually creates change: moving beyond insight into deep nervous-system and attachment rewiring so you can embody secure love

If you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns and start becoming securely attached, from the inside out, you don’t have to do this alone. To find the best program or coaching offer for you, head to: https://www.drmorgancoaching.co/esl-breakthrough

🔗 Additional Episode Links:

1. Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quiz
2. Follow me on IG → @drmorgancoaching
3. Grab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet