Have You Ever Been in Love? What Does it Take?

**Have You Felt Authentic Love?**

**Infatuation, Emotional Dependency, and the Real Thing**

**Episode Overview**

What does *real* love actually feel like—and how do you know when you’re experiencing it? In this episode, we unpack the differences between **infatuation**, **emotional dependency**, and **authentic love**, and why so many of us confuse one for another. If you’ve ever wondered whether what you felt was love or just attachment, this conversation is for you.

**Key Topics Discussed**

**1. Infatuation: The Spark That Burns Fast**

* Intensity, obsession, and idealization

* The role of novelty, fantasy, and projection

* Why infatuation feels overwhelming—but unstable

* Signs you’re in infatuation, not love

**Core question:**

> Do you love *them*, or how they make you feel?

#**2. Emotional Dependency: When Love Feels Like Survival**

* Needing someone to feel whole or safe

* Fear of abandonment disguised as passion

* How unmet emotional needs shape attachment

* Why dependency can feel deep—but draining

**Red flags discussed:**

* Anxiety when they pull away

* Losing your identity in the relationship

* Staying despite misalignment or mistreatment

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#### **3. Authentic Love: Calm, Chosen, and Grounded**

* Love as a verb, not just a feeling

* Mutual respect, safety, and emotional freedom

* Choosing someone without needing them to complete you

* Growth *with* someone, not at your expense

**Key insight:**

> Authentic love feels steady—not intoxicating, not desperate, but secure.

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