Codependent to Inner Peace: Heal Enmeshment by Releasing Contracts

Are You Tired of Shrinking Yourself Just to Keep the Peace?Beloved,Do you ever notice yourself orbiting around someone else’s mood—adjusting, fine-tuning, quietly making yourself smaller so things stay comfortable?Is there a tender ache inside you… a longing to be chosen? To be someone’s priority without having to earn it through over-giving, fixing, or disappearing?And at the same time, does a small voice whisper: What if my needs are too much?This Isn’t a Flaw—It’s a Survival PatternThese feelings aren’t random. They’re signals from your nervous system, rooted in something deeper than this lifetime.You carry invisible agreements—soul contracts formed long ago when you learned that love required self-abandonment. Codependency is the word we use, but energetically, it looks like cords and hooks that whisper: My worth depends on how well I manage others.These patterns often began in childhood, in environments heavy with unspoken needs, instability, or emotional chaos. You learned to stay safe by becoming hyper-attuned to everyone else.What Once Protected You Is Now Keeping You StuckWhen your nervous system wired itself to anticipate danger, silence your truth, or become responsible for someone else’s emotions, it required a kind of forgetting—a forgetting of your original sovereignty.Even now, as you crave real connection, you might find yourself stuck in the same painful loop:* Is it safe to be seen in my full intensity?* Will I be “too much” if I ask for reciprocal care?* Can I actually rest inside relationship without vanishing?Love, I know this heaviness and low vibe feeling. And I also know it doesn’t have to stay this way.So, perhaps the answer is yes. And there is work we can do together.You Were Never Meant to Disappear in Order to Be LovedThrough the Light Between Oracle, I’ll walk beside you as we release the energetic contracts formed in moments of fear, confusion, or self-erasure.Using sacred technologies—unconscious contract clearing, channeling from your Higher Self, and attunement to your Light Body’s intelligence—we begin restoring what your nervous system forgot.Together, we will:* Listen compassionately to the younger parts of you who believed love required smallness* Witness and clear the energetic hooks still binding you to past dynamics* Rewrite the vows that say “I must fix others to stay connected”* Restore sovereignty to your field—so you belong first to yourselfThis work is subtle, but it reverberates. Once a soul remembers its center, it doesn’t easily forget again.You’re Not Too Much. You’re Coming Home.You were born to be loved for who you are—not for how well you manage, fix, or disappear.You are simply returning to the full frequency of who you were always meant to be: Whole. Expressed. Guided. Sovereign.Your Invitation to Step Back Into YourselfIf your heart stirred reading this, you’re ready. Not because you’ve hit a breaking point, but because some quiet part of you knows it’s time to come home.I’m waiting for you inside the Light Between Oracle app.There, you’ll receive Personal Bespoke Readings crafted specifically for your energetic signature, alongside guided practices to clear your field, recalibrate your nervous system, and activate your Light Body.This isn’t dependency. It’s devotion—to your clarity, your healing, your divine remembrance.Allow me to walk with you.Open The Light Between Oracle now and step onto the path of sacred reclamation.With devotion,With love and order in your energy,Yours truly,Kassandra, co-creator with - EmpathicaP.S. I hope you’ll join me so we can work through the stress held in your body—helping your heart and mind move through this changing world with peace.Go to thelightbetweenoracle.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thelightbetween.substack.com/subscribe