Church, But Make It Gay | Why She’s Gotta Have It Feels Like a Religious Experience

Some shows open quietly. Season 2 of "She’s Gotta Have It" opens with a bang — literally.

In this episode, Ariel and Morgan break down the iconic simulated sex montage from Season 2, Episode 1 of She’s Gotta Have It, focusing on how lighting, space, and who’s in control radically reshape how intimacy is experienced and understood onscreen.

They get into it all:

• How Spike Lee uses daylight vs candlelight to reflect different emotional states
• Why this scene feels devotional rather than voyeuristic
• How Nola’s relationship with Opal marks a shift from exploration to embodiment
• How choreography, hair, and stillness do as much storytelling as movement
• And why this scene quietly sets a new bar for how queer Black intimacy is filmed on television

They also discuss the evolution from the 1986 film to the Netflix series, what it means to reclaim Nola Darling’s story through a more expansive lens, and why sexually liberated queer Black women are still so rarely given this level of care onscreen.

It’s reverent, gorgeous, deeply nerdy, and a reminder that intimacy doesn’t have to escalate to be electric.

Want to watch along? Our reaction covers 1:22:10–1:29:34 of the TV show episode and 39:27-40:27 of the movie. We cut around the clip, so it won’t sync perfectly, but you’ll absolutely get the point.

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Credits — She’s Gotta Have It (Season 2, Episode 1: “#IMFEELINGMYFEELINGS”)

Director: Spike Lee
Writers: Cinqué Lee; Joie Lee; Spike Lee
Based on the film: She’s Gotta Have It (1986), written and directed by Spike Lee
Producers: Spike Lee; Win Rosenfeld; Charlie Corwin
Actors (featured): DeWanda Wise; Ilfenesh Hadera
© 2019 Netflix / 40 Acres and a Mule Filmworks. All rights reserved.

Credits — She’s Gotta Have It (1986)

Director: Spike Lee
Writer: Spike Lee
Producers: Spike Lee; Monty Ross
Actors (selected): Tracy Camilla Johns; Tommy Redmond Hicks; John Canada Terrell; Steve White; Spike Lee
© 1986 40 Acres and a Mule Filmworks. All rights reserved.

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