63. The 5 Villages Every Mum Needs (yes, five!)

This episode explores why so many mothers feel like they’re parenting without a village, even when they’re surrounded by people who care.

I break down the five different kinds of support mothers actually need, and why expecting them all from the same people creates disappointment, resentment, and exhaustion. When we understand that the village isn’t one thing, it becomes easier to stop blaming ourselves for what’s missing.

You’ll hear about:

• Why loneliness in motherhood is often structural, not emotional

• The difference between emotional support, practical help, and time

• Why the people who love your child aren’t always the ones who can lighten your load

• Why collapsing all needs into one place leads to burnout

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