172 | 3 Unexpected Ways to Bond with Your Fearful Dog

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

If your dog flinches when you reach out… freezes when you get too close… or simply tolerates affection without really softening into it—this episode is for you.

We’re a touchy-feely species. Dogs are not.
Especially dogs who are fearful, anxious, or still learning to feel safe in the world.

In this episode of the Fearless Dog Lover Podcast, I’m sharing three powerful, connection-deepening ways to bond with your dog—that don’t involve touch at all.

You’ll learn:

• Why closeness isn’t the same as consent (and how to honor that difference)

• The subtle ways we accidentally add pressure to already-sensitive dogs

• How to create safety, trust, and relevance through orientation, rhythm, and presence

• Why the calmest moments—not the cuddliest ones—often leave the biggest mark

Whether you're working with a newly adopted dog, a lifelong worrier, or just want to strengthen your relationship beyond obedience, this episode will help you stop chasing connection and start creating the space for it.

Because your dog doesn’t need constant reassurance.
They need you to be someone they can trust—even in the quiet.

Hope you enjoy!

Tracy xoxo

Next Steps 👣🐾

Ready to take this work deeper and truly become the calm, confident leader your dog longs to follow?

Join the Fearless Framework—my 12-month online program for dog lovers navigating fear, reactivity, and unconfidence
(and yes—we help the dogs too)
👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

Curious about your dog’s unique Dogonality™?
Take the free quiz and start understanding your dog’s needs, preferences, and patterns.
👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz

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🎶 Music Credit:
Shawn Trotter – www.shawntrotter.com