EP 3594 Don't get to the top of the ladder and realise it's against the wrong wall

Most people think the goal is to climb faster. Work harder. Get more done. Win more. But here's the brutal truth: you can spend years doing everything "right" and still end up miserable if you're climbing the wrong ladder.

In this episode, I break down why high achievers often feel flat, restless, or secretly resentful even when life looks successful from the outside. It is not because you are ungrateful. It is because your direction is wrong. You have been optimising effort instead of alignment.

We unpack the warning signs that you are chasing someone else's definition of success: constant urgency, never feeling finished, needing external validation, and using achievement to avoid discomfort in relationships, health, and self respect. I walk through a simple framework to pressure test your current goals against your values, your season of life, and what you actually want your days to look like, not just what you want your bio to say.

You will learn how to audit your ladder before you waste another year. How to define success in a way that creates peace, not just progress. How to make hard decisions that protect your time, energy, and relationships. And how to course correct without burning your whole life down.

This is a reality check for driven people who do not want to wake up at 60 with money, status, and regret. If you want a life that feels strong, calm, and proud from the inside out, start here.