3 Skills Every Parent Advocate Needed

Advocating for your child can feel overwhelming—even when you know a lot. In this episode, I go back to the roots of The Collaborative IEP to break down the three essential skills every parent advocate needs to navigate special education with more confidence and less burnout.

Along the way, I share a very real “life lately” check-in, including the challenges of an unstructured holiday break, the emotional weight of comparison, and why even experienced advocates can feel knocked off their feet when it comes to their own kids.

You’ll learn:

1. Why understanding special education law matters (and how to learn it without drowning in statutes)
2. How to build working knowledge of teaching practices and disability impacts—even if you’re not an expert
3. The overlooked but critical role of advocacy and negotiation strategy at the IEP table

This episode is equal parts practical guidance, honest reflection, and reassurance that you’re not doing this wrong—you’re doing something hard. Whether you’re brand new to advocacy or deep into the DIY phase, this conversation will help you refocus on the skills that actually move the needle for your child.

You’re not alone. And you don’t have to figure this out all by yourself.

And PS. I accidentally said Ray Nelson is speaking at the Conference. He's not. He's speaking to my Membership later this year! We'd love to have you!