How To Save Your Marriage Alone (With God’s Power) Part 1 :: [Ep 300]

What do you do when your spouse has lost it? We open with the brutal honesty of a spouse who done and the courage required to keep standing. From there, we reframe the core purpose of marriage—holiness over happiness—and unpack what that looks like when wounds are fresh. Drawing on 1 John 4 and 1 Corinthians 13, we explore why love is evidence of knowing God, not a prize for good behavior. Then we get practical: how to use your words to build rather than gossip, how undivided attention beats shared screens, and how gifts, acts of service, and physical touch become pipelines for grace. You’ll hear why “conduit, not source” changes everything, including how you measure progress and protect your heart from burnout.

We don’t avoid the hard turns. Affairs, hard hearts, and cultural pressure to “cut and run” get a clear-eyed treatment, including Jesus’ teaching on divorce and the costly path of forgiveness. We talk safety, boundaries, and the sobering reality that change can be slow—even while God is at work. Through story and Scripture, we make space for grief and then chart a path forward: read the Word until it reads you, practice the fruit of the Spirit when emotions spike, seek wise counsel even if you go alone, and become a living testimony that points to a God who chased us first.

If you’re flying through fog and feeling alone, this conversation offers hope with handles. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs strength for the next step, and leave a review to help more couples find a way back to wholeness.

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