E197// I've tried everything to connect but feel like I'm getting nowhere

In this episode, I dive deep into the world of emotional pursuers—something I know all too well from personal experience. I'll share my story of how years of tiny rejections and a relentless drive for validation shaped my adult relationships, leading to constant anxiety and a desperate need for connection. We'll explore how these anxiously attached styles develop and the exhausting cycle they create. But don't worry, it's not all doom and gloom! I'll tell you how I began to heal by leaning into my faith and re-identifying myself through God's eyes, rather than seeking my husband's validation. This episode is all about finding strength in your identity and embracing grace in your relationships. I hope my journey can offer you some guidance and hope if you're facing similar challenges. So, if you're an emotional pursuer longing for connection but often finding yourself in a cycle of blame and resentment, you're in the right place. Let's work on becoming the grace-fueled wives we aspire to be, together.

00:00 Introduction: The Weight of Tiny Rejections

01:03 Understanding Emotional Pursuers

01:48 A Personal Story of Perfectionism

04:00 The Impact of Inconsistent Caregivers

04:40 The Exhausting Cycle of Pursuers

08:12 Finding Strength in Faith

09:42 A Path to Healing and Connection

10:22 Conclusion and Support

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