You're Not Fighting About What You're Fighting About!

Most arguments in marriage aren't really about the dishes, the budget, or the tone of voice. They're about something deeper. In this episode of the Marriage Altar Podcast, we unpack the truth behind recurring conflict and reveal what's actually happening beneath the surface of your arguments. If you find yourselves having the same fight on repeat, this conversation will help you slow down, identify the real issue, and begin responding from understanding instead of reaction.

We explore why surface disagreements are often symptoms of unmet emotional needs, how to recognize the hidden wounds driving conflict, and how couples can turn moments of tension into opportunities of connection and healing.

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Chapters

• (00:00:15) - Good Morning, Vietnam
• (00:01:14) - How to Stop Fighting In Your Marriage
• (00:04:00) - When You're Having A Hard Time Financially, You Fight
• (00:08:24) - 3 Hidden Feuds In A Marriage
• (00:11:41) - Married Women Talk About Not Prioritizing Each Other
• (00:15:48) - Marriage Is About Emotional Safety
• (00:17:51) - How To Identify The Real Problem in a Marriage
• (00:21:39) - How To Get Back Together With Your Significant Other
• (00:24:48) - Brawlers: Between the Lines
• (00:25:44) - How to Heal an Argument With Your Partner
• (00:29:50) - Anointing the Accusations in Your Marriage
• (00:33:59) - The Real Truth About Marriage
• (00:36:04) - Marriage Covenant
• (00:38:36) - Talking About Relationships in the Army
• (00:40:36) - How to Get Back in the Marriage
• (00:44:55) - Closing Prayer for Marriage
• (00:45:34) - Happy Holidays!
• (00:46:14) - Bless y'all