168. How to Get on Your Divorce Attorney's Good Side and Make Your Case a Priority

Do you want your lawyer to actually call you back, explain the plan, and move your case forward? It’s not magic...it’s how you communicate and collaborate.

In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea and Morgan break down what puts you on your divorce attorney’s priority list (and what lands you on the “not today” pile). You’ll hear real stories, simple scripts, and clear next steps to get faster responses, clearer strategy, and better service...without spending more than you need to.

Questions answered in this episode:

• How do I get on my divorce attorney’s good side so my case stays a priority?
• What is a realistic email or call response time from a divorce lawyer?
• How should I ask for clearer next steps when I don’t understand legal emails?
• When is it time to get a second opinion or switch divorce attorneys—and how do I do it?
• What behaviors instantly sour attorney-client relationships (and what to do instead)?

Listen in for the exact do’s and don’ts, respectful scripts that work, and a refreshingly honest take on getting the support you deserve during divorce.

Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:

• Need a thoughtful way to connect? Shop our curated greeting cards here.
• Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major (and expensive) mistakes. Learn more here.
• Our Family Wizard is a fantastic resource for anyone navigating co-parenting. Check out our partnership here.

Friends, slide into our DMs—we love hearing from you. We’re always here to listen and help in any way we can. You’ve got this, and we’ve got you.

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