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The relentless rhythm of modern life has many of us caught in an exhausting cycle—moving from task to task, commitment to commitment, all while feeling like we're running on empty. What happens when we realize our worth isn't tied to our productivity?

Steve and Mark open up about their personal struggles with pace and productivity in this vulnerable conversation. They discuss how easy it is to artificially inflate noise and busyness in our lives, finding ourselves explaining away downtime, prayer time, and moments of stillness as if they're somehow less valuable than constant activity. "I want to be seen as productive every day," one confesses, highlighting the core struggle many men face.

The conversation shifts to a powerful visual metaphor—a wall covered with Post-it notes representing all the opportunities, commitments, and decisions demanding attention. This overwhelming array of options leaves little space for discernment and hearing God's voice. When faced with time-sensitive opportunities that require immediate decisions, the wisest response might simply be "no," not because the opportunity lacks value, but because proper discernment requires time with God.

A particularly moving moment occurs when Mark shares discovering an 18-year-old "Experiencing God" workbook with his self-admonition: "I am ill-equipped to lead this study, so sit down and shut up." Now, years later, he finds himself leading that very study—a powerful testament to how God works in the areas where we feel least capable.

Who are you doing it for? This question emerges as the central filter for evaluating commitments. Understanding whether our actions serve ourselves, others, or God's kingdom provides clarity in a chaotic world. Remember: "You can take your foot off the gas and still be valuable to God, your family, and your friends." In fact, slowing down may be exactly what allows you to show up as the man God created you to be.

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