Become Who You Choose To Be

How to Design Your Ideal Self

Most people don’t fail because they lack motivation. They fail because they never build an identity that can sustain change.

Become Who You Choose To Be is a practical identity-design playbook for anyone who feels stuck in old patterns—and wants a repeatable system to change for good. Instead of chasing short-lived goals, you’ll learn how to define who you want to be, prove it through daily actions, and maintain it with feedback loops that keep you consistent.
Inside, you’ll learn how to:

• Reverse-engineer your ideal identity into simple daily behaviors
• Use small, compounding change (the 2% approach) to shift your personality over time
• Break self-sabotage by changing your environment and reducing friction
• Build confidence through evidence—small wins that become proof
• Align goals with values so your choices feel clear, not forced
• Create an identity maintenance system that prevents backsliding

This isn’t hype, and it isn’t a one-time mindset pep talk. It’s a method: define the identity, build the behaviors, design the environment, then lock it in with feedback.

If you’re ready to stop drifting—and start deliberately becoming the person you choose—this book gives you the system.