Always Waiting for You to Feel Better

Walking Beside Depression Through a Lifetime of Love, Loss, and Hope

You love someone who is struggling. And you're exhausted from waiting.
Every day, you wonder: Will today be different? Will they finally feel better? Will the waiting ever end?
You've learned to adjust your life around their depression. You've postponed your own joy. You've carried hope for both of you. And somewhere along the way, you've become invisible—the strong one, the steady one, the one who holds everything together while slowly disappearing yourself.
This book sees you.
*Always Waiting for You to Feel Better* is a compassionate, honest companion for spouses, adult children, and caregivers who are loving someone through depression or chronic illness. Written by Pastor John E. Miller, who has walked alongside hurting families for over 28 years, this book speaks directly to the experiences you rarely hear acknowledged:
• The loneliness of loving someone you can't reach
• The exhaustion of being the "strong one" without support
• The grief of postponed dreams and canceled plans
• The guilt of needing rest when someone else needs you more
• The quiet erosion of your own identity in the shadow of illness
You'll discover:
- Why childhood patterns of "waiting" follow you into adult relationships
- How to love deeply without losing yourself completely
- What to do when caregiving becomes your entire identity
- How to hold hope without demanding healing
- Why your exhaustion is valid—and what to do about it
- Practical ways to stay present without sacrificing your own well-being
- How faith looks when God feels distant and prayers go unanswered
Each chapter includes:
✓ Real-life vignettes that reflect your experience
✓ Compassionate validation of what you're carrying
✓ Honest exploration of the emotional and spiritual challenges
✓ Scripture that speaks to your weariness
✓ Prayers for when you have no words left
✓ Reflection questions for personal growth or group discussion

Plus, a comprehensive study guide perfect for support groups, church small groups, or personal reflection.
This is not a book about fixing depression. This is a book about surviving the wait—with your faith, your sanity, and your sense of self intact.
If you're tired of being told how "strong" you are when what you really need is to be seen, this book is for you. If you're wondering how much longer you can keep going, this book is for you. If you love someone you cannot reach, this book is for you.
**You are not alone. You are not failing. And your love—imperfect, exhausted, but real—matters more than you know.
Perfect for:
• Spouses of people with depression or chronic mental illness
• Adult children caring for parents with depression
• Anyone in a caregiving role for a loved one with mental health challenges
• Support groups and counseling settings
• Church small groups addressing mental health
• Anyone who grew up in a home shaped by depression
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