After the Fact

A Guide for Families Learning of their Child's Sexual Abuse Later

What can parents say or do when they discover years later that their adult child had been sexually abused when young? Overwhelmed by guilt and shame, they repeat, “I can’t believe this happened!” Through this heart rendering revelation hangs the question: What do we do now? Written in lay terms, the authors guide parents and family through understanding what happened to their young child. It discusses ways to help their adult child (and themselves) move toward healing and health. The authors include case studies, practical tools, and resources for survivors, parents and family. From dealing with the initial revelation, to discussions about the disclosure and the steps toward healing, this book gives guidance on the road to recovery. It also offers helpful tools for therapists, social workers and other professionals assisting families in dealing with the issue of child abuse.