30 Years Strong

Marriage Secrets Every Man Should Know

What started as a teenage love story – two rings, no money, and a whole lot of grit, grew into something far deeper than anyone expected. In 30 Years Strong, A. Tefertiller opens the door to a life built not on grand gestures, but on small, steady choices made day after day.

This is a book written man to man. It doesn’t preach. It shares. Through raw stories and reflections drawn from nearly three decades of marriage, Tefertiller explores what it means to lead with tenderness, to show up when it matters most, and to love with eyes wide open. It is a lived experience. From hospital rooms to adoption papers, school gyms to kitchen tables, the lessons inside this book come from walking through real life with one woman, one commitment, and a vow that still holds.

Every chapter is an invitation to look closer, to listen harder, to care deeper, not because marriage demands perfection, but because it’s worth your full attention. Whether your relationship feels steady or stretched, this book meets you where you are and gently nudges you forward.

With warmth, grit, and a deep sense of purpose, 30 Years Strong reminds us that the most powerful thing a man can offer his wife is his presence, undistracted, unwavering, and full of intention.

You don’t have to do everything. But you do have to show up.