It's typical that, as the husband, I really don't like yada yada drawn out blatherings of so many pop psychology couples books. This one gets right to the point and without so much confrontation with my wife directly. It is a good solid breakdown of how to talk things over with respect. The authors walk you through 10 scenarios and break down what went wrong and how to fix it. Each situation hit close enough to home that it made us squirm a little.
My dear wife and I have been married 33 years, have led home couples studies, etc.
We gained a lot from this book. If you feel emotionally distant from your spouse get this book right away and read through it together. A chapter a night if you can. It brings up so many good things to talk about and shows good behavior to do it. We thought we were basically OK, maybe acting a little like good room mates, but good grief we needed this practical shove in the rear.