Wondering if the very attractive, smart, ambitious sweet young thing with the dagger nails and masters degree in business from USC suddenly sharing your perch on the corporate ladder at work is trustworthy or not?
Wonder no more. Former FBI agent Robin Dreeke’s new book, Sizing People Up, provides a Technicolor A to Z guide to just that, how best to determine how much and how far those around you can be trusted.
Derek is the former head of the FBI’s Counterintelligence Behavior Analysis Program, but he’s no wonk. Sizing People Up is far more of a story—beginning with Dreeke’s tale of nearly being obliterate by a falling tower on 9/11—than a do this, do that self help manual. And though much if not most about sizing people up would lie in your ability to get a straight answer to the question: what do you want? The Devil is in the details and Dreeke has lots.
And his advice? Among other things, deception is not always based on dishonesty but delusion. Your NBF tells you he’s great at basketball and could be a point guard in the NBA? And really believe it. So best go see him stuff a few on the court. My example not Dreeke’s and I won’t step on his punch lines, better to just go get the book.